Story of How a Kingdom is Built... And Lessons About Financial Freedom

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A Parable on Wealth & Freedom

The Kingdom
of Freedom

How one unlikely king built an empire from nothing — and the 7 financial lessons hidden inside his story

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Most people dream of a windfall — a lucky break that finally hands them the life they deserve. But what would you actually do if fortune dropped power into your lap for exactly five years, and then took it all away? That question is at the heart of a story that has quietly altered the way many people think about money, freedom, and time.

It is a story set in a kingdom called Andhar — a word that means darkness. And it begins, as all the best stories do, in the middle of despair.

The Kingdom of Darkness

Andhar was outwardly magnificent — rivers brimming with fish, triple-harvest farmlands, mountains standing guard on every flank. But beneath the glitter ran a dark secret. Generations of famine had once brought the kingdom to its knees. Mothers burned leather to boil broth for starving children. The elders, in desperation, struck a deal with a shadowy force beneath a banyan tree: a demon called Kaal Bandhan — the Binding of Time.

The price of prosperity was peculiar. Every five years, a new king would be chosen by lottery. For those five years, he would receive absolute power, boundless wealth, and every luxury imaginable. But when the clock ran out, he would be dragged into the wild forest surrounding the kingdom — to meet whatever fate awaited there. The previous kings, predictably, spent their reign in decadent abandon. Why plan for a future that ended in five years?

And so the cycle continued — king after king feasting while the clock ticked.

"Every king before him had treated those five years as his last. Sameer treated them as his first."

The Unlikely King

When the lottery was drawn this time, the name that emerged surprised everyone — including its owner. Sameer, called Sami by those who loved him, was nobody of consequence. Not rich, not powerful. But he had a quality rarer than both: he was genuinely good, and genuinely curious. Teachers and elders quietly adored him for it.

When Sami took the throne, the palace prepared lavish feasts in his honour. He declined all of it. He ate the same simple food he always had. The court was bewildered. But inside that quiet mind, a plan was already forming.

Year 1

Sameer spent his entire first year learning. He pored over the kingdom's finances — every coin earned, every coin wasted by his predecessors. He walked among his people, asking questions no king had bothered to ask. By year's end, he had complete clarity: Andhar was wealthy enough to fund an entirely new kingdom. It just needed someone willing to invest instead of spend.

Year 2

He began sending people out — quietly, in small groups. A few each day. Skilled farmers, blacksmiths, teachers, healers. Nobody noticed because nobody was looking for a slow, steady trickle. But over twelve months, more than five hundred people had slipped out of Andhar and begun clearing a wild forest beyond its borders.

Year 3

The cleared land needed more than settlers — it needed capability. Sameer now focused on training. He created systems: farming guilds, teaching circles, construction crews. He did not tell the people their destination. He simply made them ready, and they came willingly.

Year 4

By now, the new land had a life of its own. People grew different crops, made tools, built homes, traded with one another. Sameer began buying their goods with his royal funds — seeding the economy from the top down while it grew organically from the bottom up. A real kingdom was taking shape.

Year 5

When the final year arrived and the crowd in Andhar wept at Sameer's departure, he did not weep. He smiled. He walked willingly into the forest — and on the other side was not death, but a kingdom that had been waiting for him. Moksh. Freedom.

"I didn't prepare for an ending," Sameer told Arjun. "I was preparing for a beginning — one that everyone else mistook for goodbye."

7 Lessons Hidden in the Story

Sameer's kingdom is a parable, but the lessons inside it are ruthlessly practical. Here they are, drawn out of the story like ore from rock.

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Clarity Before Action

Sameer's first act wasn't spending — it was understanding. He mapped every asset, every liability, every leak. Financial freedom never begins with hustle; it begins with an honest audit of where you actually stand.

02

Live Below Your Means

A king who could eat from gold plates chose a clay bowl. The gap between what you can spend and what you do spend is exactly where wealth is built. Every rupee not consumed is a brick in the next kingdom.

03

Build Systems, Not Just Savings

Previous kings hoarded gold; Sameer created infrastructure. Savings protect you. Systems generate for you — indefinitely. The goal isn't a pile of money; it's a machine that produces money while you sleep.

04

Multiple Streams of Income

Sameer didn't send only farmers. He sent blacksmiths, healers, and teachers too. Diversification isn't caution — it's architecture. If one stream dries, others flow. Income resilience is built by design, not accident.

05

Skills Over Status

Status is borrowed; it can be revoked on someone else's timeline. Skills compound. A person who can farm, build, or heal carries their wealth inside them, immune to the whims of any lottery. Invest in capability first.

06

The Compound Effect

A few people sent each day looks like nothing. Five hundred people over a year looks like an army. The compound effect is invisible at first — and then suddenly, overwhelming. Small, consistent actions are the most underrated force in finance.

07

A Fixed Commitment Window

Sameer had no choice but to act within five years. That constraint was his greatest gift. Deadlines kill procrastination. If you give yourself a non-negotiable window and treat your financial plan as no less binding than a king's decree, you will surprise yourself.

Takeaways

• ◆ Start with an audit, not an ambition. Know your numbers before you make any move.
• ◆ The size of your lifestyle is a choice. The less you consume today, the more you can compound tomorrow.
• ◆ Drip strategy works. Small, daily actions are invisible — until they're unstoppable.
• ◆ Skill is the most durable asset class. Markets crash; a capable mind doesn't.
• ◆ Five years will pass either way. The question is whether you'll have a new kingdom waiting on the other side.

"Five years will pass regardless — the only question is what you build while they do."

Conclusion

Sameer didn't escape darkness through luck — he outworked it with clarity, patience, and relentless compounding. The forest that looked like an ending was, all along, the beginning he had been quietly building for years. Your financial life is no different: the Andhar you're in right now is not permanent — unless you choose to stay.

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What Death Teaches
the Living

The lessons most of us spend a lifetime avoiding are the very ones that make life worth showing up for.

April 21, 2026 · 8 min read

There is a peculiar cruelty in how modern life handles death. We know it is coming — for everyone, without exception — and yet we treat the subject like a stain on the carpet: acknowledged in peripheral vision, never looked at directly. We plan anniversaries and vacations with breezy confidence. We assume time is a renewable resource. And when death finally arrives, as it always does, we find ourselves wholly unprepared — not just for the logistics, but for the emotional and spiritual weight of it.

Consider this: 80% of people say that planning for end of life is a good idea. Yet only 27% have a living will — and of those, merely 11% of the designated decision-makers actually know where that document is kept. The consequence of this collective avoidance is visible in hospitals everywhere: ventilators humming, feeding tubes running, caregivers forced to guess what their loved ones would have wanted because no one ever had the conversation.

We are, in a very real sense, failing each other.

The Sifter on the Front Lawn

When death enters your life — not as an abstract concept but as a concrete, imminent presence — something extraordinary happens to your perception. Imagine every element of your daily existence being tipped into a giant sifter. All the noise and static: anxieties about appearance, career status, the most embarrassing car in the school pickup line, the perpetual losing battle with garden weeds — falls away. Gone. What remains, shining in the mesh, are the things that actually fed your soul: a walk at sunset with someone you love, the canopy of leaves above a backyard hammock, a child's laughter in a living room.

And something else lands in that sifter, elevated to a status previously unimagined — Now. The present moment. That is what happens when your future disappears: the present becomes luminous.

This is one of death's most disruptive gifts. It strips away entitlement — the quiet assumption that we are owed a long life, that our people will always be beside us. And in its place, it deposits something richer: a profound, almost aching gratitude for what has been there all along.

"Ordinary, everyday things become sacred. This is one of the gifts of death — it makes you profoundly grateful for what has been there all along."

The Ego vs. The Soul

Think of life as a board game — one where every player's car holds two passengers: an ego and a soul. The ego is a remarkably persuasive driver. It knows all the shortcuts, all the socially approved routes. It tells you what success looks like, what your life should be adding up to. For most of us, the ego spends decades at the wheel.

But death has a way of forcing a change of driver. When we are confronted with mortality — our own, or that of someone irreplaceable — the soul insists on taking over. The soul speaks through intuition, through the quiet pull toward what actually matters. It does not care about titles or square footage. It cares about love, presence, and whether we showed up honestly for the people in our lives.

The invitation death extends — if we are willing to receive it — is to make this handover now, before crisis forces it. To let the soul drive while we still have road ahead of us.

Learning to Sit with the Dying

Nine out of ten people want to die at home, yet the infrastructure we have built around dying is woefully misaligned with that wish. Hospice organisations provide extraordinary support, but the average stay is just 11 to 17 days — far too short for families to learn the art of accompanying someone through their final passage. The result is exhausted, overwhelmed caregivers, and people dying in fear or loneliness.

What the dying often need most is not medical intervention but presence — a calm, experienced companion who has walked this road before and knows how to hold the space. Someone who can sit with a woman in a sleep coma and guide her back to the sea breeze and roaring surf of her childhood, watching the furrows in her brow soften. Someone who can gently say to a woman terrified of being alone: You are on a solitary journey. No one can come with you. That must be scary. — and watch her, finally seen, nod in relief.

Acknowledgement is its own form of medicine. Sometimes what a dying person needs is not reassurance but honesty — the courage to name what is true so they can meet it with courage of their own.

"Death has a way of reminding us to be our best selves — not best as in whitest teeth or fanciest car. Best as in kind, loving, and genuinely grateful for this strange and extraordinary thing called life."

A Nine-Year-Old's Goodbye

Perhaps the most striking testimony to our innate capacity for grace at the edge of life comes not from a trained professional or a philosopher, but from a child. A nine-year-old boy, finding his father deep in a sleep coma on Christmas morning, climbed into the hospital bed, held his father's hand, and stroked his face. For over an hour he spoke: gratitude for every adventure shared, apologies for every tantrum thrown, vows that he would never forget. Then, when he was ready, he simply said: Well, Dad, I'll be seeing you around.

He knew, instinctively, how to do it. Because we all do. We have always known. The knowledge is not lost — it is only buried beneath the layers of avoidance and cultural silence we have built up around death. Beneath all of that, we know how to show up for each other.

80%

of people say planning for end of life is a good idea

27%

actually have a living will in place

11%

of decision-makers know where that will is kept

11–17

days: average hospice stay in the United States

Three Practices for the Living

Becoming comfortable with mortality is not a single event — it is a practice, returned to again and again. Here are three ways to begin:

01

Look for death in the everyday. The wooden table you are sitting at was once a living tree. The food on your plate was alive. The autumn leaf on the pavement is this year's green canopy. When we place ourselves consciously in this cycle, our own mortality becomes less of an ambush and more of a natural arrival.

02

Ask what will outlast you. Look around whatever room you are in. The building will exist long after every person currently in it is gone. This is not a morbid thought — it is a perspective reset. It relocates you from the centre of the universe to your actual position within it: small, fleeting, and therefore extraordinarily precious.

03

Have the conversation. Write your own obituary, even roughly. Tell the people around you what you would want if you couldn't speak for yourself. Ask them the same. These conversations are not defeats — they are the most generous gifts we can offer the people we love.

Death is not the enemy of a life well lived — silence about death is. Let death ride shotgun. Let it keep you honest, keep you present, keep you kind. The protective warmth we build around each other when we face mortality together is not woven from denial — it is woven from the courage to finally let it into the room.

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The Paradox -- Why "Anxiety" is a Side Effect of SSRI Medicines

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I was reading about Fluoxetine as a drug for anxiety management.
But I found this information on 1mg.com:

"""Common side effects of Fluoxetine
Weakness, Insomnia (difficulty in sleeping), Nervousness, Anxiety, Blurred vision, Decreased libido, Fatigue, Frequent urge to urinate, Gastrointestinal disturbance, Headache, Palpitations, Prolonged QT interval"""

Is this correct?
Aren't these the same symptoms which this drug was supposed to cure?

It is a common and often frustrating paradox in psychiatry that medications like Fluoxetine (a Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitor or SSRI) can initially cause the very symptoms they are designed to treat, such as anxiety and nervousness.

The information you found on 1mg is accurate, but it requires context regarding the body’s adaptation process. Here is why this happens and how it differs from the long-term effects.

1. The Paradox: Why "Anxiety" is a Side Effect

When you first start taking Fluoxetine, it increases the level of serotonin in the spaces between your brain cells (synapses). However, your brain has different types of serotonin receptors.

While some receptors eventually help stabilize mood, others—specifically those in the parts of the brain associated with "fight or flight"—can be overstimulated in the first 1 to 2 weeks. This can lead to:

• Increased Nervousness/Jitteriness: Often called "activation syndrome."

• Insomnia: Because serotonin is involved in the sleep-wake cycle, the initial surge can make it harder to fall asleep.

• Palpitations: A physical manifestation of that heightened state of arousal.

2. The Adaptation Phase

The reason doctors prescribe these medications despite these side effects is the Downregulation Effect. After a few weeks of exposure to higher serotonin levels, your brain receptors begin to adjust and become less sensitive. This is usually when the "side effect" anxiety fades away and the "therapeutic" anti-anxiety effect begins to take hold. This process typically takes 2 to 6 weeks.

3. Understanding the Other Side Effects

The other symptoms mentioned involve serotonin receptors located outside the brain:

• Gastrointestinal Disturbance: About 90% of the body's serotonin is in the gut. Increasing serotonin levels can irritate the digestive tract, leading to nausea or upset stomach.

• Decreased Libido: Serotonin has an inhibitory effect on certain pathways involved in sexual response. Unlike the initial anxiety, this side effect can sometimes persist throughout treatment.

• Prolonged QT Interval: This refers to the electrical timing of the heart. While rare, Fluoxetine can affect heart rhythm in some people, which is why it is listed as a potential risk.

Summary Table: Initial vs. Long-Term

Symptom	Initial Phase (Weeks 1-2)	Long-Term (Month 2+)
Anxiety/Nervousness	May increase (Activation)	Usually decreases significantly
Sleep	Potential Insomnia	Often improves as anxiety lessens
Physical Energy	May feel "wired" or fatigued	Generally stabilizes

Important Note: If someone experiences a significant increase in suicidal thoughts, extreme agitation, or a complete inability to sleep when starting this medication, they should contact their healthcare provider immediately. Medical professionals often manage the initial "startup" anxiety by starting with a very low dose and tapering up slowly.

The Things We Take For Granted

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Before I start on this post, let me first clarify that there is nothing happening to me or to people close to me that requires a talk on such a grave topic.

And if I were to tell you (which I will in a bit) what actually triggered me to pick this topic, you would be like “I'm making a mountain out of a molehill”.

Have you ever thought or paid attention to how trivial we think of it to have correct details on our ID cards like Aadhaar or PAN maybe?

I haven't checked the exact details about the case that I am going to share but at a high level it goes like:

A girl about 7 or 9 years old is out of school at the NGO I go to teach at. And the reason I got from the instructor there was that she had some errors (Plural) in her Aadhaar card.

Her name was written as “Baby of Anita” – not her actual name. Her date of birth was incorrect. And her parents' names were put incorrectly in Aadhaar. 
These details are not matching her birth certificate.

Because of this, she is not able to get admission in any school. 

I tried to assist this girl and the instructor by giving them the details of people in my contacts who do Aadhaar Update as a profession but it was of not much use as I was anticipating. I tried to talk to Dhirendra ji in my society and he said he will provide me a number to call.

I doubt if it will be of any help to the girl or just another dead end.

I am basically out of words to express myself about what other consequences lie waiting for this girl ahead.

As I write this today, you have no idea how grateful I feel for my grandfather and my chachaji (younger brother of my father) – just for the proper documentation of my details!

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Other things that I had in mind which we take for granted are the usual: air and water, simple acts of breathing and walking, ability to taste food, ability to see, etc. 

The reason I see these things with such importance today is because I have been thinking about death lately. Thinking about death as a way to refocus and reprioritize my activities and life. And as I had some cough and cold today, I thought about what it must be like for people who are not even able to breathe properly.
From there my attention spiralled to other senses, and simple acts like walking, eating, being able to talk to people we have valued in our lives – and whom you could still talk to (for me, I was thinking of my grandmother).

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And all of this also goes for essentials like: electricity, shelter and schooling – all of which I thought my caregivers owed me. I was wrong – I got them through the conscious choice of my grandparents.

It requires a bit of awareness, a bit of gratitude, a bit of appreciation to rise above the auto-pilot mode of living, above the daily rut of our lives and see, appreciate and feel thankful for what we have – rather than complaining about what we have not. 

I guess that's all for today!

My message to anyone reading this would be: 
Consider the things you take most for granted, the simplest of simple things – those actually might be the things which make life worth living!

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3 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Broke

Real talk about money from someone who’s been there — now adapted for India 🇮🇳

Picture this: You’re 22, just moved to Mumbai for your first job. A Friday night out with friends — a couple of samosas, a few chai shots, and then the waiter walks up and says, “Ma’am, your card has been declined.” The whole café seems to go silent. That was me in 2016. I had a respectable job at a bank in Bandra, but my personal finances were a complete mess. I’d help companies move crores of rupees during the day, then panic about ordering an extra biryani at night.

The good news? I figured it out. And you can too. Here are the three lessons that changed everything for me.

1️⃣ Learn the language of money (desi edition)

Finance sounds like alphabet soup: PPF, ELSS, NPS, FD, SIP, CIBIL… it’s enough to make your head spin. But don’t be afraid to ask dumb questions. Use free tools like Zerodha Varsity or ET Money. Find a mentor (a finance didi/bhaiya) who talks in Hindi or plain English — no jargon. When you understand the language, you stop being scared of your own money.

2️⃣ Build a money community — without shame

We grew up hearing “paiso ki baat nahi karte” (don’t talk about money). But check this: your rich uncle has no problem discussing stocks at kitty parties. It’s time to break that rule. Join Reddit India groups, Telegram finance channels, or start a WhatsApp group with two trusted friends. Share your real salary numbers, your struggles with credit cards, your first SIP victory. Online anonymity helps — you’ll find digital buddies who keep you accountable without judgment.

3️⃣ Use modern tools, not your dad’s advisor

Your father might swear by his LIC agent or a family friend who “manages” money. But you don’t get a pension like him. You can’t run a home on one income like him. So why take his old-school advice? Groww, Coin by Zerodha, Jupiter, Fi — these apps are licensed, regulated, and built for your phone. They offer low fees, AI-powered insights, and plain-English guidance. UPI changed how we pay; fintech can change how we save and invest. Modern problems need modern solutions.

✨ Bottom line: That embarrassed feeling when your UPI fails or your card gets declined? It doesn’t have to last forever. Start today: learn one new term, share one money truth with a friend, and download one modern investing app. A decade from now, you’ll look back and thank yourself. The future of finance isn’t coming — it’s already here, and it’s working for you.

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Honoring My Managers: Deepika Saxena

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Good morning!

In my 13 years of experience, I have worked under a lot of managers. To keep this post manageable for me to write and for the readers to read, I am going to stick to a few of those managers (and sometimes to their qualities, rather than to them as a person).

Let’s me start with my first manager, Deepika Saxena.

I was there at the NetEdge Computing in Noida for internship, and I wasn’t doing exactly well with the Android app that I was building. So one bright sunny day, around 10, 10.30, Deepika called me into the conference room. She sat on one side of the oval table and I sat on the other, but not facing each other, and like 1 or 2 chairs away.

Now she said something on these lines: “...We at NetEdge look for a few qualities in a person when we hire him or her and so do every other company. And let me tell you that you do have those qualities in you…” And she went on with that conversation, asking questions normally about work, about my college, education, my interests, family, health and other things.

The qualities that she mentioned were:
- Attitude: maintain a positive attitude towards work expected from you, and people you work with
- Competency: This is the most visible and reported quality in corporate world
- General Intelligence: Not everyone can know everything all the time, but you could cultivate the basic ingredient that makes you knowledgeable and that ingredient is general intelligence
- Commitment: Companies and managers like to hire people they see long term future with
- Humility: Deepika used to say a phrase to people and it was “There is always going to be some person better than you...”

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One observation I had that’s work related from my time at NetEdge Computing (under Deepika) and at Magic Software (under Vikas Kumar Gupta) was that:

“In POCs and Projects with research like goals, you got to come back fast with response and development to a task / ask / or query – a little bit late and your manager or your client or your company may start to lose interest and start questioning the requirement itself.”

Thanks for reading!
Stay tuned!

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‘Challenging, unrealistic’: Women gig workers in Noida stage protest; demand fixed working hours and basic facilities

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The women described a system in which their earnings could fluctuate sharply based on customer ratings and strict punctuality metrics.

Sonakshi Thapa (27) who had joined Urban Company to support her family, now dreads the commute — twenty-minute-long walks under the scorching sun or when it is raining heavily.

She is among the thousands of female gig workers who work as partners for platforms that provide at-home services.

Noida has been witnessing a series of protests by workers over wages in the last few days. A smaller group of women, all gig workers, gathered on Wednesday morning, but with a different demand: not more pay, but more predictable hours and basic dignity at work.

About 40 women who work with Urban Company, including Sonakshi, assembled outside a training centre in Noida Sector 60. They demanded an eight-hour shift, weekly time-off and access to essential facilities like drinking water and toilets.

The women on Wednesday said their concerns were rooted less in how much they earned than how they were made to work. They said the time was right as the demand put forward by several other workers was being heard by the UP government.

Sonakshi, who started working eight months back, said workers are given 15 minutes to travel between appointments — a target she termed as “unrealistic”. “It takes at least 20 minutes because we have to walk… it is challenging,” she said.

Thapa also pointed to challenges faced specifically by female workers. “We need to change sanitary pads. Every woman faces this issue,” she said. “We cannot do that in customers’ homes. We need proper facilities.”

She said that after deductions linked to ratings and attendance, her monthly earnings had dropped to about Rs 18,000 in recent months.

Another gig worker associated with the company for five months, Neha Devi (25), who earns about Rs 25,000 a month, echoed the same concern. “We are not asking them to increase our salaries. We are asking for fixed working hours and basic facilities.”

Devi said that although government norms prescribe an eight-hour workday, she and her colleagues are often required to work up to 11 hours. Absences on weekends, she said, can lead to disproportionately high deductions. “If my daily wage is Rs 833, why is Rs 1,000 rupees cut?” she said.

The women described a system which leads to fluctuations in their earnings, sharply based on customer ratings and strict punctuality metrics. “Even if we are late by a minute, our daily earnings are slashed by half,” she added.

The protesting women also said that supervisors were often unreachable and, at times, allegedly threaten them regarding account deactivation.

The nature of their work — traveling from a customer’s home to another — also involved lack of access to basic amenities, they said. “We are told to use customers’ washrooms,” Devi said. “But many times, we are shooed away.”

Pinky Kumari (30), quickly unlocked her phone and opened WhatsApp. A series of texts to her supervisor read, “Sir please remove the cancellation”, “Only you could do it. Rs 1,000 would be cut.”

Showing the messages requesting a cancellation reversal, she said those went unanswered. “We were told during training that if we don’t cancel, our money won’t be deducted,” she said. “But no one listens.”

She added that while complaints raised by workers about customers rarely lead to action, even a minor complaint from a customer can result in immediate suspension of a worker’s account.

Wednesday’s protest was cut short later in the morning.

Police escorted the women in buses and removed them from the site. A senior officer present at the spot said the gathering had been allegedly prompted by a “misleading” message circulating among workers and described it as part of a broader pattern of mobilisation seen in recent days.

Queries sent to Urban Company remained unanswered.

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