Remembering Tanuja Nautiyal (As in Aug 2025)

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"Who was she?"
She was the Chemistry teacher during my first year at Northern India Engineering College (later renamed to Akhilesh Das Gupta Institute of Technology and Management).
Later she headed the Discipline Committee at the college.
Further later, she was made the Examination Cell Incharge.

"How did I caught her eye?"
I think I was highest ranking student in my class who joined NIEC. That's how I caught her eye at first for the good reason and that was the last good reason.

As I sit down here today, I am feeling everything I tell myself about Tanuja Nautiyal is because of stories I tell myself, impressions I formed, feelings I felt. Not because I have an incident to quote to you that proves anything here.

From third semester onwards, when I felt I was unnecessarily getting pulled into mess with young and female teachers, I always thought that I know I am not wrong and that Tanuja Nautiyal has my back.

When I felt I was being followed around in public transportation services (the bus service I used to take was Delhi Metro Bus service running between Mayur Vihar and Shastri Park), at the same time there were teachers who used to look at me with suspicious looking (thought provoking) eyes like Priti Verma Dhaka, Garima Sethi or the Swarnlata (who taught us "Software Engineering" briefly for about 2 weeks in fourth semester I think), I used to tell myself how does it matter, what can they do, am I not safe? I used to tell myself that let it be, if you would go and tell them to stop, they would not stop anyway. It was something outside of my control. All I had was trust in Tanuja Nautiyal (heading Discipline Committee) that she would make things right once what-this-was-an-investigation-surveillance-or-what ends after they know enough about.

The truth is that enough never came.

Lessons I learnt from my experiences with Tanuja Nautiyal are:

1. Never lay too much / unreasonable amount of trust in anyone

2. A little bit of Discipline in life does not have to hurt, it would rather help you. It helps you exert some control over situations (though outcomes are still out of control).

3. Ethics and Integrity are important. 

Cherished aloo parantha memories from Infosys (As in Jul 2025)

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I am at Accenture these days. It has been 4 years since I left Chandigarh by the end of December of 2021. 

It was a rainy morning last week (and raining when I was having my aloo parantha and ginger tea at the Accenture cafeteria) when I first thought of pulling this piece up.

Accenture's cafeteria hall on ground floor block 9 gives me the memories of Infosys Chandigarh's cafeteria hall. Memories intensified by the aloo parantha and ginger tea available here similar to back those days at Infy Chandigarh. 

The large hall, few people here and there in spots but mostly empty seats. The tricolor (orange, white and green) theme of plastic chairs. The greenery outside the window. The rainy weather last week, and pre-rain weather today. All of these things bring up the past memories.

I think as I sit down here to write this piece of recollections of the breakfast table at my previous employer, I am getting recollections that I can put up in one short narrative. What I am sort of getting are flashes of memories spread across time and space. And with people in it like Anil Dahiya.

No need to mention that I don't have anyone here with me today, primarily the reason why I am able to do this writing. :D

The problem I am observing is that I don’t have any images or pictures of Infosys memories to share with you right now and as I am getting reflections of the memories from Infy these are more of a collage, a reel with music and sliding pictures rather than a narrative.

I think I forgot the name of aloo parantha outlet vendor but I think the tea vendor was “Karma Tea Stall” (but bhaiya used to work at Karma and his name was Gyanchand Jain whom Anil used to call Gyan ji) - haha, getting harder and harder to give you the specifics.

Similar to Infy Chandigar, here also you get aloo parantha from one vendor and tea from another.
Aloo paratha is served in a square three block plate with butter and curd. 
At Accenture, you can get an extra butter cube for free upon asking but at Infy they used to charge some 5 rupees extra for another butter cube or some extra curd.

Anil used to come to the office by 8-8.30 and he used to sit next to one of those meter wide square pillars (probably because the pillars had sockets in them).
Here at Accenture cafeteria, I observed there are meter wide square pillars 🙂

Just that I was sitting by the window with my food. Eating and reminiscing…

Question answering with myself and thoughts about Moni (2025-Aug-5)

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2025-Aug-5

“What was I doing last night?”
Before going to bed, I was making news posts on Blogger using my AI tool. The topic of concern was the usual “Layoffs”, “Artificial Intelligence”, among others.
I had bad dreams about layoffs in the IT industry in general. About how Moni is treated by her employers in her baby-sitting job as if nannies or maids aren’t human beings.
First I woke up around 12.30 AM then Moni sent me to sleep forcibly, then the second time I woke up again around 3.10 AM. This second time I sat on my laptop to write some code for the AI tool to convert News webpages from various sources into summarized blog posts on my Blogger handle.

I think that was mostly it. I got up from my mat and bed-table around 6.30, and was on walk on society peripheral from 7 to 7.40 (I think, I did 5000 steps 🙂)
8-9.30: I was sleeping
Then I had bath and breakfast (some poor tasting Vermicelli, 😀)

Sometimes I think about Moni and think about myself. How large her life is despite having so little, and how little my life is despite having so much. To say that she has faced all possible pains Lord Krishna can give would be a bit of an exaggeration but she would not be too much short of that. She wakes up at 5 AM in the morning to do the household chores and cook food. By 7 she leaves to arrive at Princy’s house to do her cooking (breakfast and lunch) and then she would go to Alankrita's place to take care of Asher. At Alankrita’s place, she expected to take care of Asher, cook their meals and also keep the house clean. Sometimes the entire day goes by standing, without sitting and yet Alankrita’s husband would not be happy / satisfied with Moni. Lately she asked for half day off on Sunday and these people only let her go around 4.30-5 in the evening. Just about an hour before her time. 
Sometimes she would complain of pain in her thighs, sometimes in the back, sometimes her eyes would be troubling her due to dryness (though this one is because she rides scooty without a proper windshielded helmet).
The day before yesterday, we were at the mall (Zudio and Vishal Mega Mart in Sector 89) and Mahi wanted a pair of footwear that were priced about Rs 600-700. But Mahi chose to let them go, to not go for them after talking to Moni. Moni convinced her that these footwear were not in her budget. Yet the mother and daughter are happy. Moni’s life makes me feel so little.
I feel ashamed. I wasted the entire day today and also was snoozing here and there yesterday. Let me get back to work.

What gives me joy (Jul 2025)

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“What gives me joy?”

Let me try and recollect some joyous moments from past and try to answer this question for you and to understand myself for me.

Um… I thought hard for a couple of minutes but seems like I don’t have any particular recollections from my time in Tri Nagar as a child.
No, hold on… I remember we used to do activities like flying kites in August till Independence Day, playing games with neighbor’s kids during summer vacations, enjoying the company of the cousins (three buaji’s kids) when they would come on festive occasions or when Rekha buaji used to come and bring toys from US every 2-2.5 years.

:) These are really old memories when I was maybe 6-8 years old.

Post the time when I was in 5th to I guess 11th, I used to love playing outdoor games and spending time with friends. I think I enjoyed the tuition classes as well (as I recall today) because through tuition classes I was able to score good marks in whatever subject I took tuition for. As in Sanskrit and History in class 6th, Math in class 8th, overall good percentage in class X and XII. I think good academic results boosted my pride.
But I must say my English was particularly poor when I joined Ahlcon School in class 5th, till the time I was in tenth. In Xth CBSE boards, I had scored the lowest in English – 75.

College time was a mess (let’s be honest) but were there any moments of joy, little or large, here or there?

I think I enjoyed getting attention during those four years – like when I was made class representative by Tanuja Nautiyal mam in first semester. Or again by Prashant Gupta sir (who taught ADA) in 4th semester. I think I enjoyed the company of friends like Nishant Adhikari, Dinesh Goyal, Apurv Mridul, Faizan, Rizwan in one group and Abhishek Shukla and Love Gupta in another group. 

Moving on to the time at Mobileum:
Quarterly project parties! :D And the month end birthday celebration at Office.
Taking on challenging tasks – even if I would mess them up later for my own worse :D
I enjoyed conversations with Yajuvendra, Kapil Kumar and there was this guy (used to sit next to Yajuvendra in his bay and was in Kapil’s team) whose name I am forgetting… pardon my memory :| I think it was Kush Batra.
Then there were these two folks from BDA unit: Abhishek Saxena and Savita whom I used to hang out with sometimes (more often than ‘sometimes’).

After 3.5 years at Mobileum, I went to Infosys for 5.5 years – out of which first 4 years (2018-21) were in Chandigarh. Shall come to that later….
Calling it a piece and closing the chapter for now… Good day!

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Chandigarh - As remembered in Jun 2025

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I don't know I miss Chandigarh sometimes. 
“Then what is it that I don't know?” 
The experiences, the life became sour once the surveillance team from Manu Apartments picked up again.

“Why Manu Apartments? How is it Manu Apartments?”
No proof. But purely on hyper-excitement and ominous gut feeling I got whenever I was there. Particularly when I got to see Suresh anywhere in society. 

“But what's the point of it all?” 
“Why write about it today?”
No point, no reason except that it (writing) helps calm down my nerves. 

Digressed a bit too much :D
What I wanted to write about was my “super good” days in Chandigarh. Just a note - “super good” is relative from people to people and experience too.

Just before those good days, I had suffered too much harassment in the Dr Batra's house.
Shouting vegetable street peddlers, disturbance from Narendra (if I am recalling his name right) and his roommates, anxiety from high tea/caffeine doses…. Just that I wasn't keeping well (which is a rather polite way to put it)... I remember going to office even on weekends in March of that year 2021 but personal work, it was still work - I was setting up things on GitHub and moving files out of my laptop - brilliant strategy, something that has lasted with me even till date.

I was tired, I was in bad shape, I needed rest. I have had enough.
I changed my room to a kothi in Sector 6, Panchkula right behind Infosys campus (which was basically Chandigarh). I was basically on the Chandigarh and Panchkula border, but still a posh area. 

Here is sector 6, Panchkula, there was construction of houses going on in some houses near to my place and if I am not wrong, I was bothered by this as well.
That was because one of the houses under construction was right in the zone about 2-3 houses away and I was bothered by the construction sounds. 

Amid this turmoil, I found a way to soothe myself. I found a way to peace. I found a way to change. I found a way to relax. 

I had found my way to a spa. Tenzin Tibetan Spa.
I was a life changing experience, one that lasted till this date.
I felt that the time ahead of my now was amazing and of high exploration. It was great time there till things went out of control with Sakshi Dahiya (friend at Infy) by the year end and I came to Delhi.

The lesson I learnt was this: There is no harm in stealing a bit of moments here and there in peace, luxury and relaxation. 
I found the experience life altering and I think the cost (will come to that later) was worth it.

Remembering Garima Sethi (Jun 2025)

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Fictional illustration of a real person using ChatGPT

This was in 2010.
I first came across Garima Sethi mam when I joined my classmates from 2009 batch in the middle of third semester.

I had got an year back in first year but that rule was lifted for the students from current academic session. “Year Back” rule was a brutal decision by the GGSIPU against the students not serious in studies or not securing a minimum amount of score or percentage in the exams.

In the first year, I mostly wasted my time in fooling myself into thinking that if I would sit for IITJEE for a second time, maybe I would get better results. It turned out I was having a disturbed sleep and waking hours from more than normal amount of caffeine intake.

Well, I was sleeping in the 6 hours long exam due to not drinking tea in the break after the first half of the exam consisting of two sessions.

I may have digressed but what I wanted to share was that I was already in a bad shape even before I was going to meet Garima Sethi. Garima Sethi, who was going to make my life hell.

Surprisingly, she had one of the few important subjects during that time (my time of 2009-2013, before Data Analytics, Data Science, Machine Learning, AI or Gen AI were there).

In the third semester, she was teaching Data Structures and Algorithms. A more detailed analysis and design of algorithms came 4rth semester as taught by Prashant Sharma sir, the subject was called ADA (abbreviation of Algorithms – Design and Analysis).

The grudge I held against her… well, I held multiple grudges but this seems to be one of the first and foremost one. 

In the time that I was absent from the third semester and attending classes in new Humanities building with the fresh entrants in new session of first semester, Garima Sethi had already taught one of the most important lessons of DSA.

“Psuedo code can be written in plain English. It doesn’t have to cryptic, it don’t have to be like a programming language itself like how any psuedo-code was written in that TMH book (Schaum's Outline of Data Structures).”

I missed this one detail and suffered with the back in the subject.
It wasn’t just this subject though. I don’t recall what other subjects I got a back log for in third semester but DSA was an important subject.

The Unspoken Truths of Life, Death, and Everything In Between (2025-Jun-18)

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“What really matters when you die?”
“What really matters when you are dying?”

Once you are dead, I don't think anything matters thereafter.
But once you are dying… Is it wrong to ask for a little bit of comfort, a little bit of support of “a family”? Or are we supposed to just be aware of our death and accept it the way it is?

“What if you are in sickness? What if you are sick?”
Are we just supposed to pass away quietly still? Without bringing any discomfort to anyone, anybody.

One thing I am definitely not supposed to worry about is the expectations of other people. If they are “empty handed”, they would like a dollar. If they have a dollar, they would want 2 dollars or 10 dollars.

You can't even die in peace. Just if you like more context, I am talking about my mother.

I don't know what I am talking about. I don't know what to write about. 

This day of low health (but really good weather with cloudy sky and a day out at the temple) made me think about my death in my meditation. 

Speaking of death: what are my assets and what are my liabilities?

At the end of the day, a conversation about death circles back to money and finance.
How much do you have?
How much do you owe?

I owe my SBI bank some 41 lakh rupees. But that is a home loan, considered a “good loan” - one that is backed by an asset.

Surprisingly, nothing else :D 
There was a car loan also but I repaid that one. :D

My assets are at a low. At about 3.5 lakhs. I mean I wouldn't know what I would do in an emergency. Times are tough.

Dikhya just pinged with a “?”
I sent her a quick text “call?” Followed by :
“I was not keeping well.
Could not raise the matter with you.
Apologies for my absence. Pls convey my message to your father also who was trying to reach out.
Not a good day. Feeling low.”

I hope it resolves the issue and any miscommunication or any communication gap.

I think I am going to watch one of Ankur Warikoo's videos on Finance and rest and relax with it.

There is this book by Ankur Warikoo that's titled “Make Epic Money”. I don't know what to make out of the title because sometimes making Epic money would seem like an unreasonable target when all you want to do is just come out of a financial trough.

Thanks!
God bless!

Embracing the Journey - Reflections on Life, Work, and the Future (2025 Jun 12)

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2025 Jun 12

"Happy Birthday, Babaji! Miss you a lot."

Today marks another year, a personal milestone that often prompts reflection. As I navigate through the ebb and flow of daily life, a simple yet profound quote resonates deeply: "Count your blessings and start each day afresh!" This isn't just a feel-good mantra; it's a powerful philosophy that reshapes perspective. When you consciously acknowledge the good in your life, a positive outlook naturally emerges, influencing how you perceive people, situations, and challenges. Coupled with the idea of starting each day anew, it propels you beyond "Ground Zero," past the starting line, and into a realm of continuous growth and renewal.

My days often involve a blend of personal pursuits and professional responsibilities. Recently, I've been delving into the world of blogging, inspired by motivational content creators like "Productive Peter." It's a fascinating journey of self-expression and learning. Work, on the other hand, has been surprisingly relaxed, perhaps a testament to the quiet efficiency that sometimes prevails. A significant project, the "Network Engg Assistant" Migration, has reached a crucial point, marked complete with the procurement of a DNS for the back-end service. These small victories, whether in personal endeavors or professional tasks, contribute to the tapestry of a fulfilling day.

Life, however, is rarely linear, and personal relationships often add layers of complexity. My upcoming trip to Ajmer from Gurugram, with tickets secured, is a case in point. The initial excitement surrounding a connection with Harshita has, unfortunately, waned. A mother's intervention, followed by Harshita echoing the sentiment of impatience, cast a shadow over what could have been. It's a reminder that expectations can sometimes lead to disappointment, yet the journey itself holds its own lessons. Despite the dampened enthusiasm, I remain open to the experience, curious to see what unfolds.

Amidst these personal reflections, a larger, more existential question often surfaces: what does the future hold, particularly in a world increasingly shaped by artificial intelligence? As AI continues to advance, taking over tasks that demand mental energy and cognitive effort, one can't help but ponder the implications for humanity. A thought that frequently crosses my mind is the possibility of a monastic existence for people in general. A life of limited resources—food, possessions, space—dedicated to intellectual and spiritual pursuits. In such a scenario, the traditional motivators of complex tasks, novelty, and ambition might diminish, replaced by a simple passing of time, with AI managing the allocation of essential resources for basic survival. It's a stark vision, yet one that prompts deeper consideration of our purpose and value in an AI-dominated future.

My own writing journey mirrors this evolving landscape. While I can now articulate coherent thoughts and string together several lines with a sense of flow, crafting a complete piece of 300-400 words that maintains a singular focus remains a challenge. My current output often feels like a collection of disparate passages on varied topics rather than a unified narrative. It's a work in progress, a testament to the ongoing process of refining one's craft. Perhaps, in time, the pieces will seamlessly interweave, forming a cohesive whole, much like the diverse threads of life that, when viewed collectively, create a rich and meaningful existence.

Navigating the 'Whys' of a Challenging Day - A Personal Reflection (2025 Jun 6)

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Life often presents us with moments that compel us to pause, reflect, and question. Sometimes, these moments arrive unannounced, wrapped in the guise of a difficult conversation or an unexpected setback. In such times, the structured approach of techniques like the '5 Whys' – typically reserved for root cause analysis in business – can offer a surprising lens through which to examine our personal habits and reactions. This is a journey into one such day, a day that prompted a deep dive into the 'whys' of my own experiences, both professional and personal.

The evening began with a call from Shridhar, delivering news that cast a shadow over the day. Shiben, a colleague, was apparently displeased, even going so far as to inquire about a potential replacement for me on the DAP project. Shridhar, with a tone of concern, highlighted the precarious position of being off-boarded from two projects consecutively, emphasizing the negative impression it could leave on management.

His feedback, though difficult to hear, was direct and insightful. Shridhar observed a recurring issue in my work: the timely communication of status, progress, challenges, and impediments. "Just let the stakeholders know where we are," he advised, a simple yet profound piece of counsel that resonated deeply. This conversation underscored the critical importance of proactive communication in professional settings, a lesson I was now confronting firsthand.

The uncertainty surrounding my involvement in DAP lingered. I pressed Shridhar for clarity: "Was Shiben certain to not keep me?" His response offered a glimmer of hope – I could still be part of DAP, as he had yet to find a replacement. Simultaneously, another project, NEA, was struggling, progressing at a snail's pace due to delays in relaying requests to AIP Support. The confluence of these professional challenges left me in a state of introspection, unsure how to navigate the immediate future.

In the wake of these professional revelations, a different kind of introspection began. It was 9:09 PM, and the world outside seemed to quiet as I sought solace in familiar routines. The gentle strains of Tibetan flute meditation music filled the air, a calming balm to a turbulent mind. My focus shifted to programming puzzles from HackerEarth, a pursuit that allows me to engage with logic and problem-solving, areas where I feel a sense of competence and control. This was my way of re-centering, of focusing on "what I do best, or what I am good at, or what I want to excel at."

Even as I delved into these personal pursuits, the outside world gently nudged. Harshita's WhatsApp message, "How is my day going?" and her mother Nisha Mehta's earlier call, both went unanswered. In that moment, I needed the space to sort through the complexities in my head, to process the day's events without immediate external demands. My eventual response to Harshita, "I was not keeping well," was an honest reflection of my internal state, prompting her verbatim follow-up: "Why?" This simple question, echoing the very technique I was attempting to apply to my habits, served as a poignant reminder of the interconnectedness of our professional and personal lives.

On days like these, rough, hard, and tiring, the thought often arises: is 400 words too much to write? The intention behind these reflections is not merely to vent, but to extract meaning, to distill lessons from the chaos. Even on a bad day, if the essence of the news can be conveyed in 300 words, why not? The goal is to be concise, impactful, and purposeful. And so, with that resolve, I decided to call it a post and carry on with the night, finding a quiet strength in the act of creation and reflection.

This day, with its professional challenges and personal reflections, served as a powerful reminder of the continuous journey of self-improvement. The feedback, though initially unsettling, became an opportunity for growth. The retreat into personal passions provided a much-needed anchor. And the act of writing, of distilling complex emotions and events into meaningful words, became a form of therapy and clarity. By applying the spirit of the '5 Whys' not just to external problems but to internal states, we can uncover deeper understandings of our habits, our reactions, and our path forward. God bless!

The Unrelenting Quest for Clarity Amidst the Fog (2025-Jun-2)

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The drive for clarity seems to be a recurring theme lately. Why meditate? Why journal? Why dive into books on success, motivation, or career paths? The answer echoes back, simple yet profound: to find clarity. Whether it's untangling the general knot of thoughts through meditation, understanding the specifics of my daily life and relationships via journaling, or seeking targeted wisdom from authors like Ankur Warikoo, the underlying goal remains the same – to see things more clearly.

Despite this intention, the day itself felt slow, shrouded in a persistent fog of confusion. Much of it was spent in the very activities meant to bring clarity – reading and meditation – yet the path forward didn't immediately illuminate. It often feels like navigating by feel rather than sight.

Then, as evening approached, the external world interjected with its own demands. A quick ping, followed by a call from Shridhar, served as a heads-up: discussions about my project involvement were imminent. The possibility of being released from one project (IR) to focus on others, like network engineering, was floated. Prepared, I initiated a call with Binu, who confirmed Shridhar's points but added a twist – an urgent, overnight deliverable for a chatbot piece, stemming from a teammate's absence.

The expectation felt jarringly unfair. How could an overnight turnaround be reasonably requested, especially given the circumstances? Voicing this boundary, both to Binu and later confirming it with Shridhar, felt necessary, even if uncomfortable. It highlighted the friction between external pressures and personal capacity.

So, what now? The immediate future seems to demand a shift in focus: preparing for interviews, sharpening coding skills, and delving into new learning territories like Agentic AI. Keeping it simple, focusing on just these actionable steps feels crucial to avoid overwhelm. Yet, even as I try to ground myself with motivational mantras – "Tough times don’t last, tough people do" – a sense of panic lingers. There's an uncomfortable pull, an almost obsessive urge to write, to process, even when logic dictates that time might be better spent elsewhere. It's a strange tension, this need to document the feeling of being adrift while simultaneously needing to build a raft. Perhaps acknowledging this very conflict is, in itself, a form of clarity.

Memento Mori, Marriage Prospects, and Making Sense of It All (2025-Jun-6)

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It's a familiar feeling, isn't it? That stretch of free time, yawning open, and the accompanying confusion about how best to fill it. Lately, my default has been turning inwards – meditation, or perhaps outwards to the curated wisdom of YouTube motivational talks. The goal is always the same: seeking a fresh lens, a different angle on the currents of daily life.

Yesterday, this digital exploration led me down a particularly thought-provoking path. A TEDx talk titled “Memento Mori” – Latin for “Remember Death” – resonated deeply. It wasn't morbid, but rather a stark reminder of life's finitude, urging a focus on what truly matters. As often happens in the algorithmic world, this opened a door to Stoic philosophy, a school of thought I've been dipping into, seeking its practical wisdom for navigating modern complexities. I even felt compelled to capture my initial thoughts on “Memento Mori” in a separate post.

This quest for perspective plays out against the backdrop of daily responsibilities. My day was filled with the technical demands of the Network Engineering Assistant project – testing, troubleshooting, liaising with support, and guiding teammates. The usual rhythm of work provides its own structure.

But life rarely stays neatly compartmentalized. An afternoon message brought a different kind of challenge. Harshita's mother had apparently called multiple times. I hadn't felt well and hadn't returned the missed calls promptly. Her message conveyed a sense of urgency: “Ashish my mom called you many times... when are you free after 4pm she wants to talk to you”.

When I did call back later that evening, the conversation quickly pivoted to expectations. Could I get a premium train ticket and travel to Ajmer immediately to meet Harshita? My preference for a more budget-conscious approach was met with, perhaps, surprise. Then came the question about my mother's involvement, leading to a discussion about differing views on finding marriage matches – local versus online bureaus, offline meetings versus long-distance expectations. Nisha Mehta (as she introduces herself) noted the trend towards online searches, yet the expectation remained for me to travel, echoing a past experience where a potential connection fizzled after a similar invitation.

It's in these moments – the intersection of philosophical reflection, daily work, and complex personal interactions – that the real learning happens. Remembering mortality, embracing Stoic acceptance of what we can't control, and navigating the often-unspoken expectations of others... it's all part of the journey. What did I learn? Perhaps that clarity doesn't always come from filling free time, but from observing how we respond to all of life's moments, the planned and the unexpected.

Reflections on a Quiet Day — Seeking Clarity in Chaos

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May 31, 2025 — 2:10 PM

There are days when your mind drifts toward big questions—the kind that don’t have immediate answers. Today is one such day. I find myself wondering: What would the end look like? Would it be a peaceful closure or chaotic unraveling? Would we have abundance, or would scarcity shadow us? Will AI continue to serve us, or eventually outpace and outmaneuver our needs and values?

In the middle of these swirling thoughts, I’m asking myself a more immediate question: Should I just shut off the noise and do what I like? The issue is—I'm not even sure what that is anymore.

I’ve tried a few things that help: meditation, journaling, reading, even watching motivational videos—stories rooted in Buddhism or Ankur Warikoo’s perspectives. These do bring temporary clarity. But at times, even with all these tools, the world just doesn’t make sense. It feels disjointed, like I’m walking through a fog with no compass. I find myself asking: Which hobby should I pursue? What would bring joy?

Despite the inner chaos, life carries on. Time ticks. You complete your 400 words. You breathe. You live.

Today, I visited Tijara Ji with Akash (Honey Kaushik). A short visit. We meditated for 20 minutes inside the serene temple, bathed in the sounds of prayer chants. No elaborate rituals, no shopping, just silence—and perhaps, healing. Moni wasn’t with us, which made it feel even quieter, perhaps a bit empty in its own way.

Lunch was at the temple too, so no meals needed till later in the evening. I feel light, both physically and mentally.

“What now?” you may ask.

I’m turning my focus to something constructive. I plan to work on the social media presence of my blog—share posts on Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn. A small effort, but one that gives me direction.

In a fleeting moment, I wished there was someone I could talk to. Someone who would just listen—no advice, no interruptions, just presence. It passed, but the wish lingered for a heartbeat.

As for the weekend, it’s going to be about stillness and small wins. I’ll write, read, relax—and maybe even plan something for the days ahead.

God bless.

A Day of Small Wins, Big Thoughts, and Honest Reflections

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Today started with something simple yet empowering—a driving class. I drove to the office parking lot in Sector 21, Dundahera village, about 24–25 kilometers away. With less traffic on the road than usual, the drive was smooth and comfortable. I managed to return halfway home before switching off near the Jaipur Highway. It was one of those drives that makes you feel just a little more in control of your life.

Later in the day, good news came in—my salary got credited. With that, I made an important decision: to pre-close my car loan. The loan had been dragging me down financially, especially with ₹24,000 vanishing each month. Looking at the numbers, I’ve already spent over a lakh on interest payments alone. Ending that cycle will be a financial relief and a step closer to financial clarity.

Work was technically productive. We managed to containerize the NEA app using Docker and deploy it to a Kubernetes cluster. However, the last piece of the puzzle—DNS setup—is still pending. We’re close to getting the whole thing functional. It’s one of those inch-by-inch battles.

Now, why am I journaling all of this? The simple answer: to rebuild my communication skills. Writing helps me pause and reflect. It brings structure to the chaos in my head.

That said, some parts of the day brought discomfort. Moni’s daughters—Mahi and Chulbul—are staying with us. But their stay has been more frustrating than helpful. Their academic performances have been lackluster, and their motivation seems lacking. Today, they were out late into the evening without much accountability, and that stirred some raw feelings in me. I don’t want to dwell too much on negativity, but writing it out helps process the emotion and let it go.

On a lighter note, Ankit and Akash called. There’s talk of a new freelancing opportunity where we’d split ownership—33%, 33%, and 34% respectively. It’s exciting but also daunting. Where do I find the time and energy? Still, it feels worth exploring.

Tomorrow’s another early morning, another drive, and maybe another small win. Let’s see where the road leads.

God bless.