Monday, March 29, 2021

Marriage related laws and terminology



#1 Annulment

Annulment is a legal procedure within secular and religious legal systems for declaring a marriage null and void.[1] Unlike divorce, it is usually retroactive, meaning that an annulled marriage is considered to be invalid from the beginning almost as if it had never taken place (though some jurisdictions provide that the marriage is only void from the date of the annulment; for example, this is the case in section 12 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 in England and Wales).[2] In legal terminology, an annulment makes a void marriage or a voidable marriage null.[3] 

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Annulment

1: Statsky, William (1996). Statsky's Family Law: The Essentials. Delmar Cengage Learning. pp. 85–86.

2: https://www.scotlawcom.gov.uk/files/5912/8015/2668/Report%20on%20family%20law%20Report%20135.pdf

3: John L. Esposito (2002), Women in Muslim Family Law, Syracuse University Press, ISBN 978-0815629085, pp. 33–34

#2 Alimony

Alimony (also called aliment (Scotland), maintenance (England, Ireland, Northern Ireland, Wales, Canada), spousal support (U.S., Canada) and spouse maintenance (Australia)[1]) is a legal obligation on a person to provide financial support to their spouse before or after marital separation or divorce. The obligation arises from the divorce law or family law of each country. 

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alimony

1: http://www.familycourt.gov.au/wps/wcm/connect/fcoaweb/family-law-matters/property-and-finance/maintenance/

#3 Men's rights movement

The men's rights movement (MRM)[1] is a branch of the men's movement. The MRM in particular consists of a variety of groups and individuals who focus on general social issues and specific government services which adversely impact, or in some cases structurally discriminate against, men and boys. Common topics debated within the men's rights movement include the alleged favor given to women in family law including but not limited to matters such as child custody, alimony and marital property distribution. The movement also concerns itself with parenting, reproduction, suicides, domestic violence against men, circumcision, education, conscription, social safety nets, and health policies. The men's rights movement branched off from the men's liberation movement in the early 1970s, with both groups comprising a part of the larger men's movement.

Since its inception, the men's rights movement has received substantial criticism, and some scholars described the movement or parts of it as a backlash against feminism.[2] Claims and activities associated with the men's rights movement have been criticized and labeled hateful and violent.[3][4] In 2018, while noting "some corners of the men's rights movement focused on legitimate grievances," the Southern Poverty Law Center categorized some men's rights groups as being part of a hate ideology under the umbrella of 'male supremacy' (see: androcentrism and patriarchy).[5][6] The movement and sectors of the movement have been described as misogynistic.[7][8] 

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men%27s_rights_movement

1: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/2056305119841387

2: https://web.archive.org/web/20131020163216/https://newcastle.edu.au/Resources/Schools/Humanities%20and%20Social%20Science/JIGS/JIGSV4N2_039.pdf

3: https://www.splcenter.org/hatewatch/2012/05/15/intelligence-report-article-provokes-fury-among-mens-rights-activists

4: https://www.theweek.co.uk/people/62607/mens-rights-movement-why-it-is-so-controversial

5: https://www.splcenter.org/fighting-hate/extremist-files/ideology/male-supremacy

6: https://newrepublic.com/article/147744/rise-male-supremacist-groups

7: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.2753/AAE1061-1959490101

8: https://muse.jhu.edu/book/10536 

#4 Prenuptial agreement 

A prenuptial agreement, antenuptial agreement, or premarital agreement (commonly referred to as a prenup), is a written contract entered into by a couple prior to marriage or a civil union that enables them to select and control many of the legal rights they acquire upon marrying, and what happens when their marriage eventually ends by death or divorce. Couples enter into a written prenuptial agreement to supersede many of the default marital laws that would otherwise apply in the event of divorce, such as the laws that govern:
4.1.1. the division of property, 
4.1.2. retirement benefits, 
4.1.3. savings, and 
4.1.4. the right to seek alimony (spousal support) with agreed-upon terms that provide certainty and clarify their marital rights.[1][2] 

A premarital agreement may also contain waivers of a surviving spouse's right to claim an elective share of the estate of the deceased spouse.[3]

In some countries, including the United States, Belgium and the Netherlands, the prenuptial agreement not only provides for what happens in the event of a divorce, but also to protect some property during the marriage, for instance in case of a bankruptcy. Many countries, including Canada, France, Italy, and Germany, have matrimonial regimes, in addition to, or some cases, in lieu of prenuptial agreements.

Postnuptial agreements are similar to prenuptial agreements, except that they are entered into after a couple is married.[4] When divorce is imminent, postnuptial agreements are referred to as separation agreements.[5] 

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prenuptial_agreement

1: Knight, Lee G.; Knight, Ray A. (September 2013). "The Benefits and Limitations of Prenuptial Agreements: A Planning Opportunity for CPAs". The CPA Journal. 83 (9): 62–66.

2: Walzer, Peter M.; Riemer, Jennifer M. (Spring 2016). "Premarital Agreements for Seniors". Family Law Quarterly. American Bar Association. 50 (1): 95–116.

3: Marcuccio, Elizabeth A. (2014). "The Evolution of the Surviving Spouse under the Estates Powers and Trusts Law". North East Journal of Legal Studies. 31: 50.

4: Robert DiGiacomo (2 April 2008). "Quit fighting -- get a postnuptial agreement". CNN LifeWire. Cable News Network. Retrieved 18 June 2012.

5: Alexander Lindey and Louis I. Parley, Lindey and Parely on Separation Agreements and Antenuptial Contracts 1.21[1] (1998). See, e.g., Combs v. Sherry-Combs, 865 P.2d 50, 54 (Wyo. 1993). ("A postnuptial must be distinguished from a separation agreement. A separation agreement, entered into by parties in anticipation of immediate separation or immediate separation or after separation, is favored in the law.") 

Prenup in India

In India, prenuptial agreements are very rare and do not have any governing laws. However, with rising divorce rates people are showing increasing interest in them. Some lawyers are of the opinion that prenups don't have legal sanctity in India. However, some form of contract is signed in some cases, usually among affluent citizens. But, the agreements need to be reasonable and not violate pre-existing laws like the Hindu Marriage Act. Indian courts allow a memorandum of settlement to be signed during divorces. But, no court has yet been asked to enforce a prenup.[6]

These agreements may come under the Indian Contract Act 1872. The Section 10 of the Indian Contract Act states that agreements are to be considered contracts if they are made by the free consent of the parties.[7] However, the Section 23 of the same act states that a contract may be void if they are immoral or against public policy.[8]

Goa is the only Indian state where a prenuptial is legally enforceable, as it follows the Portuguese Civil Code, 1867. A prenuptial agreement may be signed between the two parties at the time of marriage, stating the regime of ownership. If a prenuptial has not been signed, then the marital property is simply divided equally between the husband and wife.[9]

6: https://www.business-standard.com/article/beyond-business/legally-bound-112072100025_1.html

7: "Indian Contract Act". Article 10, Act No. 9 of 1872.

8: "Indian Contract Act". Article 23, Act No. 9 of 1872.

9: https://www.dnaindia.com/mumbai/report-why-marriages-are-made-in-goa-1154015 

#5 Postnuptial agreement

A postnuptial agreement is a written agreement executed after a couple gets married, or have entered a civil union, to settle the couple's affairs and assets in the event of a separation or divorce. It may be "notarized" or acknowledged and may be the subject of the statute of frauds. Like the contents of a prenuptial agreement, provisions vary widely but commonly includes provisions for division of property and spousal support in the event of divorce, death of one of the spouses, or breakup of marriage. 

In the United States, much like prenuptial agreements, although laws vary by state there are five basic elements that must generally be met for a postnuptial agreement to be enforceable:[8]

5.1. it must be in writing (oral promises of this kind are always unenforceable);
5.2. it must be executed voluntarily;
5.3. it must be done with full and/or fair disclosure at the time of execution;
5.4. it must not be unconscionable; and
5.5. it must be executed (signed) by both parties.

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Postnuptial_agreement

8: https://heinonline.org/HOL/LandingPage?handle=hein.journals/wlr2007&div=33&id=&page=

#6

The Indian Contract Act, 1872

The Indian Contract Act, 1872 prescribes the law relating to contracts in India and is the key act regulating Indian contract law. The Act is based on the principles of English Common Law. It is applicable to all the states of India. It determines the circumstances in which promises made by the parties to a contract shall be legally binding. Under Section 2(h), the Indian Contract Act defines a contract as an agreement which is enforceable by law. 

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indian_Contract_Act,_1872

#7

Hindu Marriage Act

The Hindu marriage Act is an Act of the Parliament of India enacted in 1955. Three other important acts were also enacted as part of the Hindu Code Bills during this time: the Hindu Succession Act (1956), the Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act (1956), the Hindu Adoptions and Maintenance Act (1956). 

The main purpose of the act was to amend and codify the law relating to marriage among Hindus and others.[1] Besides amending and codifying Sastrik Law, it introduced separation and divorce, which did not exist in Sastrik Law. This enactment brought uniformity of law for all sections of Hindus. In India there are religion-specific civil codes that separately govern adherents of certain other religions. 

Applicability

Section 2 [2] of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 says:

This Act applies:

7.1. to any person who is a Hindu by religion in any of its forms or developments, including a Virashaiva, a Lingayat or a follower of the Brahmo, Prarthana or Arya Samaj;

7.2. to any person who is a Buddhist, Jain or Sikh by religion; and

7.3. to any other person domiciled in the territories to which this Act extends who is not a Muslim, Christian, Parsi or Jew by religion, unless it is proved that any such person would not have been governed by the Hindu law or by any custom or usage as part of that law in respect of any of the matters dealt with herein if this Act had not been passed.

This section therefore applies to Hindus by religion in any of its forms and Hindus within the extended meaning i.e. Buddhist, Jains or Sikh and, in fact, applies to all such persons domiciled in the country who are not Muslims, Christians, Parsi or Jew, unless it is proved that such persons are not governed by the Act under any custom or usage. The Act applies to Hindus outside the territory of India only if such a Hindu is domiciled in the territory of India.[3]

The Act was viewed as conservative because it applied to any person who is Hindu by religion in any of its forms, yet groups other religions into the act (Jains, Buddhists, or Sikhs) as specified in Article 44 of the Indian Constitution. However, with the passage of Anand Marriage (Amendment) Bill in 2012, Sikhs now also have their own personal law related to marriage.[4]

A marriage is directly registered by the Registrar of Marriage under section 8 of Hindu Marriage Act-1955 on the same working day. Verification of all the documents is carried out on the date of application and thereafter Marriage is registered on the same working day by the registrar of marriage appointed by the Govt. of India and marriage certificate is issued.[6]

Hindu view of marriage

According to Hinduism, marriage is a sacred relationship.[7] In some Hindu systems of marriage, there is no role for the state as marriage remained a private affair within the social realm.[8] Within this traditional framework reference, marriage is undoubtedly the most important transitional point in a Hindu’s life and the most important of all the Hindu ‘’sanskaras’’ (life-cycle rituals). The Congress Government diluted the Hindu Marriage in 1955 by enactment of HMA and then in 1983 by introduction of 498A. Special Marriage Act in 2000. Therefore there was fierce religious opposition to enacting such laws for marriage, succession and adoption. The greatest opposition was to the provision of divorce, something which is anathema to the Hindu religion. Also resisted was the principle of equal inheritance by sons and daughters regardless of whether the daughter was married or unwed.[9] This was contrary to the Hindu view of family, where married daughters were regarded as belonging to the family of their husband, not to the family of their father.

Some have argued that Hindu marriage cannot be subjected to legislative intervention. Derrett predicted in his later writings that despite some evidence of modernisation, the dominant view in Hindu society for the foreseeable future would remain that marriage is a form of social obligation.

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hindu_Marriage_Act,_1955

1: https://indianexpress.com/article/explained/girl-child-protection-gender-equality-women-empowerment-supreme-court-child-marriage-4901798/

2: bokakhat.gov.in/pdf/The_hindu_marriage_act.pdf

3: https://indiankanoon.org/doc/140502088/

4: https://legislative.gov.in/sites/default/files/A1909-07.pdf

6: https://courtmarriageindia.org/

7: https://indiankanoon.org/doc/100425410/ 

#8 The Prohibition of Child Marriage Act, 2006

The Prohibition of Child Marriage Act 2006 came into force on 1 November 2007 in India. In October 2017, Supreme Court of India gave a landmark judgement criminalising sex with a child bride, hence removing an exception in India’s criminal jurisprudence which had until then accorded legal protection to men who raped their minor wives.[1]

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Prohibition_of_Child_Marriage_Act,_2006

1: https://indianexpress.com/article/explained/girl-child-protection-gender-equality-women-empowerment-supreme-court-child-marriage-4901798/

#9 Dowry system in India

The dowry system in India[1] refers to the durable goods, cash, and real or movable property that the bride's family gives to the groom, his parents and his relatives as a condition of the marriage. Dowry is essentially in the nature of a payment in cash or some kind of gifts given to the groom’s family along with the bride and includes:

9.1. cash, 
9.2. jewellery, 
9.3. electrical appliances, 
9.4. furniture, 
9.5. bedding, 
9.6. crockery, 
9.7. utensils, 
9.8. vehicles and 
9.9. other household items that help the newlyweds set up their home.

Dowry is referred to as Dahez in Arabic.[4] In the far eastern parts of India, dowry is called Aaunnpot.

The dowry system can put great financial burden on the bride's family.[5] In some cases, the dowry system leads to crime against women, ranging from emotional abuse and injury to even deaths.[6] The payment of dowry has long been prohibited under specific Indian laws including the Dowry Prohibition Act 1961 and subsequently by Sections 304B and 498A of the Indian Penal Code. The Dowry Prohibition Act 1961 defines dowry: "Dowry means any property or valuable security given or agreed to be given either directly or indirectly - 

(a) by one party in marriage to the other party in marriage; or 

(b) by the parents of either party to a marriage or by any other person to either party to marriage or to any other persons;at or before or after the marriage as consideration for the marriage of the said parties, but does not include dower or mahr in the case of persons to whom the Muslim Personal law applies."

A court judgement[9] clarifies the legal definition of dowry as

"Dowry" in the sense of the expression contemplated by Dowry Prohibition Act is a demand for property of valuable security having an inextricable nexus with the marriage, i.e., it is a consideration from the side of the bride's parents or relatives to the groom or his parents and/or guardian for the agreement to wed the bride-to-be.

Article 3 of the Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 specifies that the penalty for giving or taking dowry does not apply to presents that are given at the time of a marriage to the bride or groom is when no demand for them has been made.[10]

Although Indian laws against dowries have been in effect for decades, they have been largely criticised as being ineffective. The practice of dowry deaths and murders continues to take place unchecked in many parts of India, which has further added to the concerns of enforcement.

Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code required the groom and his family to be automatically arrested if a wife complains of dowry harassment. The law was widely abused, and in 2014, the Supreme Court ruled that arrests cannot be made without a magistrate's approval.[13]

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dowry_system_in_India

1: https://web.archive.org/web/20120111134223/http://www.moneycontrol.com/news/business/godrej-%E2%80%98nupur-jagruti%E2%80%99dahej-ke-khilaf-ek-awaz_270666.html

9: https://web.archive.org/web/20150515101107/http://www.vakilno1.com/bareacts/dowryprohibitionact/dowryprohibitionact.html

10: https://web.archive.org/web/20210127021141/https://wcd.nic.in/act/dowry-prohibition-act-1961

13: https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/No-arrests-under-anti-dowry-law-without-magistrates-nod-SC/articleshow/37661519.cms

#10 The Muslim Women (Protection of Rights on Divorce) Act 1986

The Muslim Women (Protection of Rights on Divorce) Act was a controversially named landmark legislation passed by the parliament of India in 1986 to protect the rights of Muslim women who have been divorced by, or have obtained divorce from, their husbands and to provide for matters connected therewith or incidental thereto. The Act was passed by the Rajiv Gandhi government to nullify the decision in the Shah Bano case. This case caused the Rajiv Gandhi government, with its absolute majority, to pass the Muslim Women (Protection of Rights on Divorce) Act, 1986 which diluted the secular judgement of the Supreme Court.

It is administered by any magistrate of the first class exercising jurisdiction under the Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973. As per the Act, a divorced Muslim woman is entitled to reasonable and fair provision and maintenance from her former husband, and this should be paid within the period of iddah.

According to the Statement of Objects and Reasons of this Act, when a Muslim divorced woman is unable to support herself after the iddah period that she must observe after the death of her spouse or after a divorce, during which she may not marry another man, the magistrate is empowered to make an order for the payment of maintenance by her relatives who would be entitled to inherit her property on her death according to Muslim Law. But when a divorced woman has no such relatives, and does not have enough means to pay the maintenance, the magistrate would order the State Waqf Board to pay the maintenance. The 'liability' of husband to pay the maintenance was thus restricted to the period of the iddah only.

The iddat is a waiting period, a period of abstinence, or a specified period during which, after the dissolution of her marriage through divorce or death, or after any other form of separation from her husband under certain conditions, the woman remains unmarried.

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Muslim_Women_(Protection_of_Rights_on_Divorce)_Act_1986

#11

Christian personal law

Christian Personal Law or family law regulates Adoption, Divorce, Guardianship, Marriage and Succession in India. The provisions of canon law concerning marriage are recognised as the personal law of Catholics in India (except in the state of Goa). Marriages of Indian Christians (except in the state of Goa) are regulated by the Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872. Christian Personal Law is not applicable in the state of Goa. The Goa civil code, also called the Goa Family Law, is the set of civil laws that governs the residents of the Indian state of Goa. In India, as a whole, there are religion-specific civil codes that separately govern adherents of different religions. Goa is an exception to that rule, in that, a single secular code/law governs all Goans, irrespective of religion, ethnicity or linguistic affiliation.

Gullipilli Sowria Raj v. Bandaru Pavani is an Indian Supreme Court ruling in a lawsuit involving the legality of the marriage to a Hindu woman of a Christian man who had represented himself as Hindu. The court ruled that the marriage was not valid.[1]

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_personal_law

1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gullipilli_Sowria_Raj_v._Bandaru_Pavani

#12 Legal separation

Legal separation (sometimes judicial separation, separate maintenance, divorce a mensa et thoro, or divorce from bed-and-board) is a legal process by which a married couple may formalize a de facto separation while remaining legally married. A legal separation is granted in the form of a court order. In cases where children are involved, a court order of legal separation often makes child custody arrangements, specifying sole custody or shared parenting, as well as child support. Some couples obtain a legal separation as an alternative to a divorce, based on moral or religious objections to divorce.

Legal separation does not automatically lead to divorce. The couple might reconcile, in which case they do not have to do anything in order to continue their marriage.

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_separation

#13 Apostasy in Islam

An apostasy in Islam or an apostate from Islam is commonly defined as the abandonment of Islam by a Muslim, in word or through deed. It includes not only explicit renunciations of the Islamic faith by converting to another religion (or abandoning religion altogether), but also blasphemy or heresy, through any action or utterance implying unbelief, including those denying a "fundamental tenet or creed" of Islam.

0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apostasy_in_Islam

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Sunday, March 28, 2021

ls - command to list computer files in Unix



In computing, ls is a command to list computer files in Unix and Unix-like operating systems. ls is specified by POSIX and the Single UNIX Specification. When invoked without any arguments, ls lists the files in the current working directory. The command is also available in the EFI shell. In other environments, such as DOS, OS/2, and Microsoft Windows, similar functionality is provided by the dir command. The numerical computing environments MATLAB and GNU Octave include an ls function with similar functionality.

The Portable Operating System Interface (POSIX) is a family of standards specified by the IEEE Computer Society for maintaining compatibility between operating systems. POSIX defines the application programming interface (API), along with command line shells and utility interfaces, for software compatibility with variants of Unix and other operating systems.

The Single UNIX Specification (SUS) is the collective name of a family of standards for computer operating systems, compliance with which is required to qualify for using the "UNIX" trademark. The core specifications of the SUS are developed and maintained by the Austin Group, which is a joint working group of IEEE, ISO JTC 1 SC22 and The Open Group. If an operating system is submitted to The Open Group for certification, and passes conformance tests, then it is deemed to be compliant with a UNIX standard such as UNIX 98 or UNIX 03. Very few BSD and Linux-based operating systems are submitted for compliance with the Single UNIX Specification, although system developers generally aim for compliance with POSIX standards, which form the core of the Single UNIX Specification. 

Without options, ls displays files in a bare format. This bare format however makes it difficult to establish the type, permissions, and size of the files. The most common options to reveal this information or change the list of files are:

-l 
long format, displaying Unix file types, permissions, number of hard links, owner, group, size, last-modified date and filename

-f 
do not sort. Useful for directories containing large numbers of files.

-F 
appends a character revealing the nature of a file, for example, * for an executable, or / for a directory. Regular files have no suffix.

-a 
lists all files in the given directory, including those whose names start with "." (which are hidden files in Unix). By default, these files are excluded from the list.

-R 
recursively lists subdirectories. The command ls -R / would therefore list all files.

-d 
shows information about a symbolic link or directory, rather than about the link's target or listing the contents of a directory.

-t 
sort the list of files by modification time.

-h 
print sizes in human readable format. (e.g., 1K, 234M, 2G, etc.) This option is not part of the POSIX standard, although implemented in several systems, e.g., GNU coreutils in 1997, FreeBSD 4.5 in 2002, and Solaris 9 in 2002.

-1 (the numeric digit one) 
force output to be one entry per line.

Demo

$ pwd
home/ashish/Desktop/ls_test

$ ls
file1.txt  file2.txt  ls_test_inner

$ ls -l
total 12
-rw-rw-r-- 1 ashish ashish    2 Mar 28 20:09 file1.txt
-rw-rw-r-- 1 ashish ashish    2 Mar 28 20:09 file2.txt
drwxrwxr-x 2 ashish ashish 4096 Mar 28 20:10 ls_test_inner

$ ls -a
.  ..  file1.txt  file2.txt  ls_test_inner

$ ls -r
ls_test_inner  file2.txt  file1.txt

$ ls -t
ls_test_inner  file2.txt  file1.txt

$ echo " " > file0.txt

$ ls -r
ls_test_inner  file2.txt  file1.txt  file0.txt

$ ls -t
file0.txt  ls_test_inner  file2.txt  file1.txt

$ ls -R
.:
file0.txt  file1.txt  file2.txt  ls_test_inner

./ls_test_inner:
file3.txt

$ ls -h
file0.txt  file1.txt  file2.txt  ls_test_inner

$ ls -lh
total 16K
-rw-rw-r-- 1 ashish ashish    2 Mar 28 20:31 file0.txt
-rw-rw-r-- 1 ashish ashish    2 Mar 28 20:09 file1.txt
-rw-rw-r-- 1 ashish ashish    2 Mar 28 20:09 file2.txt
drwxrwxr-x 2 ashish ashish 4.0K Mar 28 20:10 ls_test_inner

$ ls -F
file0.txt  file1.txt  file2.txt  ls_test_inner/

$ echo " " > file3.sh

$ ls -F
file0.txt  file1.txt  file2.txt  file3.sh  ls_test_inner/

$ chmod 777 file3.sh

$ ls -F
file0.txt  file1.txt  file2.txt  file3.sh*  ls_test_inner/

$ 

So remember: FlarthR (pronounced Flarther)
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Saturday, March 27, 2021

Video Log



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Thursday, March 25, 2021

Journal (The Tinder Story)



Do you know that a Tinder subscription for one year costs lesser than Toastmasters Club subscription for six months?
Not sure about today but that was the situation back in April 2019. In April 2019 Tinder Gold subscription had been priced at some 4K bucks while Toastmasters membership was for about 4500 INR or so in equivalent USD terms.

Tinder didn’t help me find a girl but it did help me find myself. Apart from the fact that the app connects you with women, it was a great experience for me for multiple reasons.
Reason #1: if I hadn’t used Tinder, I wouldn’t have been here talking about it, haha 😂
The story goes like this. Joining Tinder was my reaction to a rejection of marriage proposal.

If I would start about the reason for rejection it would take up the space for an altogether new post but in short: it was because of last name (or cast).

People do desperate things to comfort themselves or seek pleasure. Getting a Tinder subscription was my desperate act to overcome the loneliness in my life, to fill some colors into my otherwise colorless life.

I knew what this app was about because I had used it’s free subscription a year or two before. When I first explored the dating apps, I had also tried OkCupid and some other apps such as Kik [Ref]. Let's not get into that also because (in short) the profiles were not genuine there. 

The number one plus point of Tinder is that it allows you to socialize. I needed that (socializing) the most as I had heard it again from my boss this time that I needed to work on social skills and then the boss added "and to develop social skills, you need to socialize, mix with people, interact more". 

I have been trying very hard to not think about the faults and flaws in that app but it seems that every time I found a flaw in the situation, life took a turn at that point. And I cannot stop thinking about it.

For example, I had got my first match with this girl and I was talking to her and I realised that Tinder didn't have an in-app implementation of emoticons. But this girl was using them so I asked her and she taught me that Android keyboards have built-in emoticons. Wow, that was new information. 

Then the second thing was that there was no notification to show if the other person had viewed the message. 

Third was that if I would turn off vibrations in my phone, Tinder would silently push the notification on the display without making any sound. I feel bad and frustrated even while writing this and regret that Tinder didn't think of these things from a user experience point of view.

Well, the way I am complaining here, I had complained to that girl also and ruined the things for me. She immediately got it that I was new to the app and that I didn't like it. Take away from this story is that poor usability might not mean anything to the developers but to the end users it could mean end of many relationships. 

DEFENSIVENESS: It was not that I had Tinder on my mind already. It was not even on my phone. I knew what this app was about because I had used it’s free subscription a year or two before. 

Index of Songs Playlists

  1. Meditation Music (Oct 2023)
  2. Songs (Feb 2023)
  3. Songs Playlist (Jan 2023)
  4. Songs Playlist (Mar 2021)
Tags: Songs Playlist,

Songs Playlist (Mar 2021)



1. Imagine Dragons - Whatever It Takes
https://youtu.be/gOsM-DYAEhY

2. Charlie Puth - "How Long"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CwfoyVa980U

3. Rachel Platten - Fight Song

4. "Counting Stars" - One Republic w/ Chrissy & Alex Goot
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vbYB4rddM-8

5. Somebody to Die For (By Hurts)

6. Timbaland - Apologize ft. OneRepublic

7. Legends Never Die (ft. Against The Current) | League of Legends

8. The Weeknd - Starboy ft. Daft Punk

9. Kanye West - Heartless

10. When I'm Gone - Wiz Khalifa

11. Shawn Mendes - Treat You Better

12. Maroon 5 - Memories

13. Maroon 5 - One More Night

14. In The End - Linkin Park

15. The Chainsmokers - Don't Let Me Down ft. Daya

16. Luis Fonsi - Despacito ft. Daddy Yankee

17. Kygo & Selena Gomez - It Ain't Me

18. Numb - Linkin Park

19. Eminem - Speeding (2021)

20. Imagine Dragons - Demons

21. Imagine Dragons - Radioactive

22. David Guetta - Titanium ft. Sia

23. Imagine Dragons - Bad Liar (Lyric Video)

24. The Chainsmokers & Coldplay - Something Just Like This

25. Pitbull - Timber ft. Ke$ha

26. Imagine Dragons - Believer

27. Imagine Dragons - Thunder

28. OneRepublic - Counting Stars

Tags: Songs Playlist

Word Meanings 2021-03-25 (14 Words)



#1
naval
/ˈneɪv(ə)l/

adjective
adjective: naval

    relating to a navy or navies.
    "a naval base"

Origin
late Middle English: from Latin navalis, from navis ‘ship’.
Translate naval to
Tip
Similar-sounding words
naval is sometimes confused with navel

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#2
navy
/ˈneɪvi/

noun
noun: navy; noun: the navy; noun: navy blue; plural noun: navy blues; modifier noun: navy-blue

    1.
    the branch of the armed services of a state which conducts military operations at sea.
    "she joined the navy in 1990"
        the ships of a navy.
        plural noun: navies
        "we built their navy"
        literary
        a fleet of ships.
        h
        Similar:
        fleet

flotilla
armada
naval (task) force

    squadron

2.
a dark blue colour.
"the dress comes in navy, gunmetal grey, or black"

Similar:
navy blue
dark blue
indigo
midnight blue

    ink blue

Origin
late Middle English (in the sense ‘ships collectively, fleet’): from Old French navie ‘ship, fleet’, from popular Latin navia ‘ship’, from Latin navis ‘ship’.

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#3
windward
/ˈwɪndwəd/

adjective
adjective: windward

    facing the wind or situated on the side facing the wind.
    "the windward side of the boat"

adverb
adverb: windward

    towards the wind or on the side facing the wind.
    "we have not raced windward for some time"

noun
noun: windward

    the side or direction from which the wind is blowing.
    "he had beaten to windward across St Austell Bay"

Phrases
to windward of — in an advantageous position in relation to.
"I happen to have got to windward of the young woman"

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#4 

slay
/sleɪ/
verb
past participle: slain

    1.
    archaic•literary
    kill (a person or animal) in a violent way.
    "St George slew the dragon"
    h
    Similar:
    kill

murder
put to death
do to death
put to the sword
butcher
cut down
cut to pieces
slaughter
massacre
shoot down
gun down
mow down
assassinate
execute
dispatch
destroy
eliminate
annihilate
exterminate
dispose of
wipe out
take out
bump off
do in
do for
rub out
top
wipe off the face of the earth
blow away
liquidate
stiff
waste
smoke
ice
off
killing
homicide
putting to death
execution
butchery
assassination
destruction
extermination
liquidation
mactation

    North American
    murder (someone).
    "a man was slain with a shotgun"
    h
    Similar:
    kill

murder
put to death
do to death
put to the sword
butcher
cut down
cut to pieces
slaughter
massacre
shoot down
gun down
mow down
assassinate
execute
dispatch
destroy
eliminate
annihilate
exterminate
dispose of
wipe out
take out
bump off
do in
do for
rub out
top
wipe off the face of the earth
blow away
liquidate
stiff
waste
smoke
ice

    off

2.
informal
greatly impress or amuse (someone).
"you slay me, you really do"
h
Similar:
amuse greatly
convulse with mirth/laughter
entertain greatly
make someone laugh
make someone crack up
kill
knock dead
be the death of
wow
be a hit with

    crease up
        be extremely impressive, stylish, or successful.
        "she slayed in a jumpsuit"

Origin
Old English slēan ‘strike, kill’, of Germanic origin; related to Dutch slaan and German schlagen .

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#5

choleric
/ˈkɒlərɪk/

adjective
adjective: choleric

    bad-tempered or irritable.
    "he was a choleric, self-important little man"
    
    Similar:
    bad-tempered

irascible
irritable
grumpy
grouchy
crotchety
tetchy
testy
crusty
cantankerous
curmudgeonly
ill-tempered
ill-natured
ill-humoured
peevish
cross
fractious
disagreeable
pettish
crabbed
crabby
waspish
prickly
peppery
touchy
scratchy
splenetic
shrewish
short-tempered
hot-tempered
quick-tempered
dyspeptic
bilious
liverish
cross-grained
argumentative
quarrelsome
uncooperative
contrary
perverse
difficult
awkward
snappish
snappy
chippy
short-fused
shirty
stroppy
narky
ratty
eggy
like a bear with a sore head
cranky
ornery
peckish
soreheaded
snaky
waxy
miffy

Opposite:
good-natured
affable

    (in medieval medicine) having choler as the predominant bodily humour.
    "a choleric disposition"

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#6

self-important
/ˌsɛlfɪmˈpɔːt(ə)nt/
adjective
adjective: self-important

    having an exaggerated sense of one's own value or importance.
    "a self-important bureaucrat"
    h
    Similar:
    conceited

arrogant
bumptious
self-assertive
full of oneself
puffed up
swollen-headed
pompous
overbearing
(self-)opinionated
cocky
swaggering
strutting
presumptuous
forward
imperious
domineering
magisterial
pontifical
sententious
grandiose
vain
haughty
overweening
proud
egotistic
egotistical
supercilious
condescending
patronizing
snooty
uppity
uppish

Opposite:

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#7

opprobrium
/əˈprəʊbrɪəm/

noun
noun: opprobrium

    harsh criticism or censure.
    "the critical opprobrium generated by his films"
    
    Similar:
    vilification

abuse
vituperation
condemnation
criticism
censure
castigation
denunciation
defamation
denigration
disparagement
obloquy
derogation
slander
revilement
reviling
calumny
calumniation
execration
excoriation
lambasting
upbraiding
bad press
character assassination
attack
invective
libel
insults
aspersions
flak
mud-slinging
bad-mouthing
tongue-lashing
stick
verbal
slagging off
contumely
animadversion
objurgation

Opposite:
praise

    public disgrace arising from shameful conduct.
    "the opprobrium of being closely associated with gangsters"
    
    Similar:
    disgrace

shame
dishonour
discredit
stigma
humiliation
loss of face
ignominy
odium
obloquy
disfavour
disrepute
ill repute
infamy
notoriety
scandal
stain
disesteem

        
        Opposite:
        honour
        archaic
        an occasion or cause of reproach or disgrace.
        plural noun: opprobriums

Origin

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#8

solicitude
/səˈlɪsɪtjuːd/

noun
noun: solicitude

    care or concern for someone or something.
    "I was touched by his solicitude"
    h
    Similar:
    concern

care
attentiveness
mindfulness
consideration
considerateness
thoughtfulness
solicitousness
carefulness
anxiety
worry

    concernment

Origin
late Middle English: from Old French sollicitude, from Latin sollicitudo, from sollicitus (see solicitous).

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#9

conspicuously
/kənˈspɪkjʊəsli/

adverb
adverb: conspicuously

    in a clearly visible way.
    "the signs were conspicuously displayed inside the restaurant"
        in a way that attracts notice or attention.
        "his arguments conspicuously lack rigour"

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#10

exterminate
/ɪkˈstəːmɪneɪt,ɛkˈstəːmɪneɪt/

verb
verb: exterminate; 3rd person present: exterminates; past tense: exterminated; past participle: exterminated; gerund or present participle: exterminating

    destroy completely.
    "after exterminating the entire population, the soldiers set fire to the buildings"
    
    Similar:
    kill

put to death
do to death
do away with
put an end to
finish off
take the life of
end the life of
get rid of
dispatch
slaughter
butcher
massacre
wipe out
mow down
shoot down
cut down
put to the sword
send to the gas chambers
ethnically cleanse
destroy
eliminate
eradicate
annihilate
extirpate
murder
assassinate
execute
bump off
knock off
polish off
do in
top
take out
snuff out
erase
croak
stiff
zap
blow away
blow someone's brains out
give someone the works
ice
off
rub out
waste
whack
smoke
scrag

    slay
        kill (a pest).
        "they use poison to exterminate moles"

Origin
late Middle English (in the sense ‘drive out’): from Latin exterminat- ‘driven out’, from the verb exterminare, from ex- ‘out’ + terminus ‘boundary’. The sense ‘destroy’ (mid 16th century) comes from the Latin of the Vulgate.

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#11

forage
/ˈfɒrɪdʒ/

verb
verb: forage; 3rd person present: forages; past tense: foraged; past participle: foraged; gerund or present participle: foraging

    (of a person or animal) search widely for food or provisions.
    "the birds forage for aquatic invertebrates, insects, and seeds"
        obtain (food or provisions) by searching.
        "a girl foraging grass for oxen"
        search (a place) so as to obtain food.
        "units that were foraging a particular area"
        h
        Similar:
        hunt

hunt around
search
look about
look round
look around
cast about
cast round
cast around
rummage (about)
rummage (round)
rummage (around)
ferret (about)
ferret (around)
root about
root around
scratch about
scratch around
nose about
nose round
nose around
scour
look high and low
seek
look
explore
scrounge around
rootle around

        poozle
        archaic
        supply with food.

noun
noun: forage

    1.
    food such as grass or hay for horses and cattle; fodder.
    h
    Similar:
    fodder

feed
food
foodstuff
herbage
pasturage
silage
hay
straw
comestibles
provender
2.
a wide search over an area in order to obtain something, especially food or provisions.
h
Similar:
scavenge
hunt
search
look
exploration
quest
scout

    probe

Origin
Middle English: from Old French fourrage (noun), fourrager (verb), from fuerre ‘straw’, of Germanic origin and related to fodder.

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#12

knoll
/nəʊl/

noun
plural noun: knolls

    a small hill or mound.
    "a grassy knoll"
    
    Similar:
    hillock

mound
rise
hummock
hill
hump
knob
tor
tump
barrow
outcrop
bank
ridge
dune
elevation
acclivity
eminence
drumlin
brae
law

    koppie

Origin

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#13

hillock
/ˈhɪlək/

noun
plural noun: hillocks

    a small hill or mound.
    
    Similar:
    mound

small hill
prominence
eminence
elevation
rise
knoll
hummock
hump
tump
dune
barrow
tumulus
bank
ridge
howe
law
knob
koppie
knap

    monticle

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#14

impede
/ɪmˈpiːd/

verb
past tense: impeded; past participle: impeded

    delay or prevent (someone or something) by obstructing them; hinder.
    "the sap causes swelling which can impede breathing"
    
    Similar:
    hinder

obstruct
hamper
handicap
hold back
hold up
delay
interfere with
disrupt
retard
slow
slow down
brake
put a brake on
restrain
fetter
shackle
hamstring
cramp
cripple
block
check
bar
curb
stop
thwart
frustrate
balk
foil
derail
stand in the way of
stymie
foul up
screw up
scupper
bork
cumber

    Opposite:
    facilitate

Tuesday, March 23, 2021

Twitter Security Settings and MFA (Mar 2021)



Some screenshots for reviewing Twitter's security settings

1. To enable MFA on Twitter, you need to confirm your email address.
Note: if you change your email address here, it will also change the email address you would have enter in the "Login" page. 1.1. Go to 'Settings' https://twitter.com/settings/account 1.2. Then 'Your Account' 1.3. Account Information 1.4. Email 2. As part of securing your account, Twitter provides two settings: 2.1. Multi-factor Authentication 2.2. Additional password protection
3. Tracking your session details:
4. As part of session details, it stores: 4.1. Operating System 4.2. Browser 4.3. Date-time for that session login Note: Twitter does not store your IP or location as part of session details.
5. Three ways to verify for MFA
6. Twitter's 2 security settings: 6.1. Manage account's security 6.2. Manage 'Apps' and 'Sessions'
Tags: Technology,Cyber Security,

LinkedIn Security Settings and MFA (Mar 2021)



Turn Two-Step Verification
Two-step verification requires a person to use more than one form of verification to access an account, usually by "knowing something" such as a password and by "having something" such as a mobile device. Two-step verification can greatly reduce identity theft and unauthorized access to sensitive information since most accounts become compromised from new or unknown computers or devices.

Two step verification gives you additional security by requiring a verification code whenever you sign in on new device. 

Turning this feature on will sign you out anywhere you’re currently signed in and remove all your remembered devices. It will also remove the access you may have provided to any partner or services.

Your phone number helps us keep your account secure by adding an additional layer of verification. It also helps others, who already have your phone number, discover and connect with you. You can always decide how you want your phone number used. 

If you’ve chosen to use app-based verification, follow the steps below:

1. Install an authenticator app such as "Microsoft Authenticator".

2. Open the app and tap "Add Account".

3. Select "Other" account on Microsoft Authenticator.

4. Setup your device by choosing to:
4.1. Scan QR Code: Use the Scanning Tool found within the Authenticator App.
4.2. Enter the Verification Code: Enter the secret key into the Authenticator App.

5. Enter the 6-digit verification code generated by your authenticator app to verify your device.

Now your device is ready for two-step authentication. Whenever you log in from a new device, open your Authenticator app and enter the code when prompted.

Ref

- - - 

How LinkedIn Uses Your Phone Number

If you've provided us with your phone number, we may use it for the following reasons:

1. To help secure your account if we detect suspicious activity.
If you add your phone number to enable two-step verification, we'll send a verification code to your phone if we detect an unusual sign-in attempt.

2. To prevent abuse.
If we suspect potential abuse, we can ask you to provide your phone number as an additional verification to prove you're a real person. Learn more about security verification.

3. To help you reset your password.
When you add a mobile phone number to your account , we'll automatically enable it for this purpose.

4. To help others find you.
If someone uploads their address book and your phone number is included, we may suggest them as a connection. Other permitted services may also look up your profile using your email address or phone number. You can always decide how you want your phone number used.

Note: Your phone number won't appear on your profile unless you add it to the Contact Info section on your profile. Carrier charges may apply. Contact your phone provider for details.

Ref

Additional Screenshots

1. LinkedIn allows login via Google
2. For MFA verification you either get SMS or call
3. LinkedIn's 6 Security Settings

LinkedIn Active Sessions

Current session Jalandhar City, Punjab, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.222.34 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
Other active sessions (20)
Last accessed Details (Approx location)
2 hours ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Chrome Mobile on Android IP Address: 2402:3a80:100d:f2e6:722b:5f93:81f:f5cf IP Address Owner: Vodafone India Ltd.
17 hours ago Rupnagar, Punjab, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.253.217 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
7 days ago Rupnagar, Punjab, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.253.92 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
10 days ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 150.129.198.64 IP Address Owner: Quadrant Televentures Limited
13 days ago Jalandhar City, Punjab, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.255.178 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
13 days ago Jalandhar City, Punjab, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.254.57 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
15 days ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Firefox on Windows IP Address: 117.96.241.198 IP Address Owner: Bharti Airtel Ltd C-25 Phase-2 Industrial Area. Mohali Sas Nagar Punjab-160055 In
15 days ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Chrome on Windows IP Address: 117.96.241.198 IP Address Owner: Bharti Airtel Ltd C-25 Phase-2 Industrial Area. Mohali Sas Nagar Punjab-160055 In
18 days ago Jalandhar City, Punjab, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 180.214.159.10 IP Address Owner: Quadrant Televentures Limited
24 days ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 125.62.99.248 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
24 days ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 125.62.99.248 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
25 days ago Jalandhar City, Punjab, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.61.165 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
26 days ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.252.60 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
27 days ago Jalandhar City, Punjab, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 125.62.97.227 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
27 days ago Mumbai, Maharashtra, India Edge on Windows 10 IP Address: 34.93.130.32 IP Address Owner: Avago Technologies U.s. Inc.
1 month ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.255.45 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
1 month ago Jalandhar City, Punjab, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.222.160 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
1 month ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 124.253.220.238 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
1 month ago Chandigarh, Chandigarh, India Firefox on Ubuntu IP Address: 210.56.98.243 IP Address Owner: Chandigarh
1 month ago Mumbai, Maharashtra, India Chrome on Windows IP Address: 34.93.130.13 IP Address Owner: Avago Technologies U.s. Inc.
Tags: Cyber Security,Technology,

Monday, March 22, 2021

Additional Security Settings on Facebook (Mar 2021)



You can view Facebook's security settings at this URL:
https://www.facebook.com/settings?tab=security

Refer this link for Facebook's MFA settings.

1. If you are using a Gmail ID to login on Facebook, Facebook then allows you to login via Google Authentication if you provide incorrect password:
2. As a cyber security instruction: 'Never let Facebook remember your browser'.
3. As a cyber security instruction: 'Never let Facebook remember your password'.
4. You can view the devices that you have authorized to by-pass the MFA check:
5. Facebook allows you to add 3 to 5 contacts as your 'Trusted Contacts' to whom you can call for account recovery in case you are locked out:
6. Additional information about the role of 'Trusted Contacts': 6.a. Your trusted contacts should make sure that it is you before giving you security codes. 6.b. Enter the codes from your trusted contacts, and you'll be able to access your account. 6.c. To begin, choose 3 to 5 friends that you can call for help if there's ever a problem with your account. For your security, we'll notify any new contacts that you add.
Tags: Cyber Security,Technology,

Sunday, March 21, 2021

Journal (Akriti Chauhan from Tinder)



This post is about my 'short-term long-distance text-based fling' with a girl I found on Tinder. The topic of Akriti came up when a friend of mine brought up the topic of my female friends. I think I enjoyed every conversation with Akriti. She had a very good sense of humor or might be that it matched mine, which is poor. For instance I do make up and crack 'Data Scientist' jokes such as this one:

The HR went to the chatbot expert and said, 'would you please build an FAQ chatbot for us?'. The chatbot expert came back to the HR and said, "hey, could you please rephrase 'what is your name' in five different ways?". 
I don't think common people would get it but I do think that it is funny.

Akriti and I dated for 2-3 months at first in 2019.

I was on Tinder to only explore and nothing serious. Also, Tinder is not some app for a serious engagement. People (like me) go to Tinder to explore things, they don't go their to find their true soul mate.

I had asked her for her number a lot of times but like any other female on that app, she also had trust issues.
In December, she had removed me from her contacts for no apparent reason. The thing I do remember is that she used to tell me (like 2 or 3 times in that period) that "if anytime you feel disinterested, you can always swipe left."  

We separated for about three months. Then she came back. She had found me on the Tinder app again and sent me a request to connect. This time she gave me her number after some nudging.

Sadly, the number was mostly off, or inactive. Her true caller name was not Akriti and the picture was not pretty as it was on Tinder.

We broke up again after I revealed certain things to her about myself. I told her that I am not rich and am not having the resources to start a family or settle down. She took it on a lighter note on the chat and laughed. But our communication reduced after that message, she had stopped responding and it was over.

Now the important question: 
How do you know if that person was real when you had not seen her or knew anything about her reliably?

Answer: 
Anything that the person on that app tells you, you have take that on face value. You cannot get into interogative mode, you cannot ask them to submit experience letter and address proof.

For example: 

1. Akriti would tell me that she is in Shimla but the app used to show that she is 54 KMs away.

2. Her display picture showed her hair from the back and that was it. No clue of what she might have looked like.

It occurs to me that it would be interesting if I take it up as a challenge to describe her picture. Let's do it:

It was a very sensual picture of a beautiful girl. Since Akriti was from Shimla (Himachal), the weather at the time and spot when that picture was taken would be best described as a pleasant winter night. The ambience of the place is festive like a Diwali night or a wedding night or like a bonfire night. The girl is in a red ethinic dress, a kurti maybe, or a lehenga choli with her silky soft hair falling freely. 

Memoir...
This is not a very good representation of her dress since red lehenga choli seems very synonymous with an Indian bridal dress but it was not bridal wear. Nor is the picture below matches with what I wrote above but it is still a very good reminder:
Title: Journal (Akriti Chauhan from Tinder) Tags: Journal,

Vegetable Sellers of Panchkula (Part 3)



These are the people who dropped out of school in 8th class, 9th class or so. It is hard to say what got them to sell vegetables like how they are doing.
There are never women who are screaming to sell vegetables or fruits, and always (98% percent of the times) men. And not old men but men who are mostly below 40-45.

When asked they would tell you that they make roughly 500-600 rupees as profit on a day on average.

From what I know, have seen and experienced, these people appear in the neighborhood sometime around 8 in the morning and the “show” goes on till 12, 12:30 in the afternoon. And then there are sometimes some vendors make rounds in the evening.

The sound of L as a syllable ‘ley’ or ‘lo’ at the end of a Hindi word is very shrill and annoying. It is not just 'L', it could be other similar sounds as well such as the sound of 'N' in "kinnow low kinnow".

When I checked with police about what can done about those miscreants who scream at the top of their lungs to be heard in a radius approaching a kilometre, the cop said what they are doing is not correct but it is difficult for police to manage the neighborhoods that way. They suggested that these vendors are issued licences from municipal corporation (or mayor, am not sure) and police would be of absolute help if I have all the details about these miscreants that are required in a formal complaint. 

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