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I teach meditation across many countries, and everywhere I go, the questions sound the same:
“Why am I so anxious?”
“Why does everything feel overwhelming?”
“Why is my mind so sensitive these days?”
And it’s true—this generation is facing intense emotional turbulence. Unstable politics, climate anxiety, polarization, racism, and a constant stream of information have made our minds fragile. Resilience has quietly eroded. Panic attacks, depression, loneliness, low self-esteem… these are no longer rare. They’re common.
After many years of teaching and speaking with scientists and practitioners, I’ve found seven practices that consistently help. I call them mental hygiene—simple, everyday habits that keep the mind clear, resilient, and grounded.
Let’s explore them one by one.
1. Aerobic Exercise: Move to Stabilize the Mind
The first and most powerful tool is simple: aerobic exercise.
Whenever I feel tired, restless, or mentally “speedy,” movement brings me back to balance. Exercise oxygenates the brain, releases stress from the body, and naturally lifts mood.
Of course, if you have heart conditions or health concerns, consult a doctor. But in general, movement is medicine.
2. Sleep: The Most Underrated Healer
Sleep is critical, yet many people struggle with it.
A few practical tips:
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Try to sleep earlier.
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Avoid caffeine after 1 PM if you’re sensitive to it.
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Keep gadgets out of your bedroom—if the phone is near your pillow, your hand will find it.
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Make the room slightly cool.
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Before bed, relax your body from head to toe and feel the pull of gravity.
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And most importantly: don’t chase sleep. If you look for sleep, it runs away.
Some scientists say eight hours is best; others say six to seven. I personally sleep six hours, sometimes seven. Find what works for you.
3. Food: What You Eat Shapes How You Feel
Healthy eating really does matter.
More vegetables, balanced meals, and less processed foods—simple choices that have profound effects on mood and energy.
I’m vegetarian. But whether you choose to be vegan, vegetarian, or otherwise, aim for freshness, balance, and mindfulness in your diet.
4. Three Deep Breaths: Nature’s Built-In Reset Button
Notice what happens when you feel tired or stressed—you naturally sigh.
That deep breath is your body trying to heal itself.
The practice:
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Inhale slowly through the nose.
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Exhale gently.
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Rest your mind and body in the space between breaths.
Just three deep breaths can shift your state. Later in the day, if you feel a bit better, do another three. Oxygen calms the nervous system and re-energizes the body.
5. Meditation: Start with Sound
Meditation doesn’t have to be complicated.
One of the easiest methods for everyone is sound meditation.
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Lie down or sit comfortably.
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Listen to music without words, or natural sounds—wind, birds, flowing water.
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Let both the ear and the mind listen together.
This is meditation.
The essence is awareness.
With practice, you can meditate with any sound—even traffic. (Though I admit, a baby crying is still difficult!)
Do it while sitting, walking, or resting. Sound is a doorway to presence.
6. Appreciation: Gratitude as a Daily Practice
Gratitude changes the brain. Literally.
Science talks about neurons, electric charges, rhythms. In Tibetan terms, we say Prana Bindu Nadi. The ideas are different; the effect is the same. Appreciation rewires the mind.
Start a journal and write down three things each day:
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Something about yourself
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Someone in your life
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Something about the world
Examples:
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“I’m alive—how wonderful!”
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“I can see, hear, smell, feel.”
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“This food reached my plate through countless hands—the farmers, the sellers, the cooks.”
Gratitude builds new pathways in the brain.
It transforms how you see reality.
7. Being “Okay with Not Okay”: The Wisdom of Imperfection
We live with an “all or nothing” mindset—wanting 100% perfection or feeling worthless.
But mistakes, failures, and struggles are not your true nature.
At the fundamental level, you are already whole.
We say in Tibet:
“No mistake, no success.
Repeating the same mistake—no success.”
Failure is the mother of success.
Growth requires gentleness.
Forgive yourself.
Let the past be past.
Be here now.
Thoughts are just opinions—they are not you.
Let them come and go.
A Final Word
These seven practices—exercise, sleep, healthy eating, deep breathing, meditation, appreciation, and embracing imperfection—create resilience. They protect your mental hygiene and support both body and mind.
In an unstable world, caring for your inner world is not optional.
It is essential.
Thank you for practicing.
Thank you for being here.





