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Introduction and Choices for Meditation Practice
The speaker offers three options for engaging with meditation:
Practicing meditation together
Listening to the speaker's personal story of learning meditation
Learning how to meditate
Audience is encouraged to raise hands to choose the preferred activity, promoting engagement and light physical activity.
Personal Story of Learning Meditation
The speaker shares a childhood experience of panic attacks at age 7-8, leading to seeking solutions through meditation, influenced by his father, a meditation teacher. Initial hesitation was due to age, but eventually, his father agreed to teach him.
The first meditation practice was breathing meditation, which he found boring but beneficial for panic relief. His experience involved on-and-off meditation, with panic fluctuating like stock market trends.
He describes a pivotal moment where he welcomed his panic instead of fighting it, inspired by his father's advice. This shift made meditation more effective, transforming panic into a supportive teacher.
Later, at age 13, he joined a three-year retreat in India, which initially boosted his motivation but was challenged by laziness and panic, which became friends over time. Recognizing panic as a natural part of awareness helped him deepen his practice.
He emphasizes that panic and laziness are natural, and the key is to accept and make friends with them, understanding that awareness is always present, space unaffected by weather or clouds.
Understanding Awareness
Awareness is described as the fundamental, unchanging space behind thoughts, emotions, perceptions, and feelings. It is always present, pure, and free, similar to space unaffected by clouds or weather.
Everyone has awareness, whether they realize it or not. Recognizing and maintaining awareness is the core of meditation practice.
Awareness is like space; it cannot be changed by external conditions, good or bad. The challenge is recognizing this awareness amidst daily life and distractions.
Common Questions and Discussions on Awareness
Participants discuss various aspects of awareness:
Knowing awareness vs. not knowing it
Awareness of awareness and awareness of unawareness
Wanting to be constantly aware and present ("being here")
Awareness as a space where thoughts, feelings, and sensations occur
Difficulty in maintaining awareness during strong emotions or pain
Some share experiences of awareness shifting or splitting during trauma, highlighting dissociation and the importance of staying with pain and suffering without avoidance.
Maintaining Non-Judgmental Awareness
The key to effective meditation is awareness without judgment. This means accepting whatever arises—thoughts, feelings, sensations—without labeling or resisting them.
Practicing awareness of panic, anger, worry, or pain involves welcoming these experiences rather than fighting them, recognizing that awareness is always present even during intense emotions.
Recognizing awareness as a space that contains all phenomena helps dissolve obstacles and supports liberation and inner peace.
The Secret of Recognizing Awareness
The speaker reveals a "big secret": although everyone has awareness, most are unaware of it. The challenge is not the absence of awareness but the lack of recognition of it.
Maintaining recognition of awareness leads to mental freedom, calmness, and qualities like compassion, clarity, and joy. It is like continuously opening a window to the space of awareness, allowing insights and inner qualities to manifest.
Practical Meditation Techniques
Step-by-step Practice
Raise your hand and become aware of the sensation in it (cool, warm, no sensation).
Notice pain or discomfort and simply be aware of it without judgment.
Relax the body progressively, maintaining awareness of sensations from head to feet.
Use objects like tactile sensations, sounds, or visual cues to anchor awareness.
Practice awareness of sensations in different parts of the body, including forehead, head, face, neck, shoulders, back, chest, arms, and legs.
Allow everything—pleasant, unpleasant, tightness, openness—to be in awareness without resistance.
The emphasis is on being yourself, free from expectations of "doing it right," and recognizing that awareness is always there, beyond mistakes or judgments.
Dealing with Difficult Emotions and Overwhelm
When emotions like anger or panic become overwhelming, the speaker suggests:
Return focus to bodily sensations, which serve as anchors.
Use techniques like "watching" sensations or shifting attention to sounds.
Take breaks, do physical exercises, or rest if needed.
Recognize energy movements—heat, vibrations, pressure—as signs of transformation, not problems.
Understanding energy movement helps in accepting and working with intense feelings, transforming them into growth opportunities.
Attaching and Detaching
To work with attachment:
Observe sensations related to attachment (people, objects, ideas).
Use awareness to see how perceptions create attachment.
Gradually expand awareness to see the bigger picture, reducing fixation.
This process helps loosen attachment and fosters liberation naturally.
Handling Sleepiness During Meditation
If falling asleep occurs frequently:
Accept sleepiness as part of meditation, especially at night.
Maintain awareness of the feeling of sleepiness itself.
If awareness persists, sleep can turn into a form of meditation.
This practice benefits the subconscious and unconscious mind.
Teaching Meditation to Children
To introduce meditation to children:
Make it playful, fun, and rewarding rather than a strict activity.
Use simple objects or sounds (like bells) to signal meditation times.
Start with short sessions, gradually increasing duration.
Encourage awareness of sensations, objects, or feelings in a lighthearted way.
Advice for Chronic Illness and Healing
For those with health issues:
Adjust motivation—view illness as an opportunity for awareness and healing.
Use awareness to scan the body and support healing processes.
Recite healing mantras or sutras as part of practice.
Conclusion and Gratitude
The speaker expresses gratitude to volunteers and participants, sharing upcoming book projects related to the Bardo (post-death state) and personal stories of retreat experiences, including near-death episodes and insights gained.
Q&A session follows, addressing practical issues like working with strong emotions, attachment, sleepiness, and teaching meditation to children.
Key Takeaways
Awareness is always present; recognizing it is the core of meditation.
Acceptance and welcoming of all experiences—thoughts, feelings, sensations—are essential.
Meditation is not about achieving a special state but about recognizing and maintaining awareness.
Techniques include body sensations, sounds, visual objects, and mindful observation.
Dealing with strong emotions involves patience, shifting focus, and energy awareness.
Consistency and gentle practice help develop habits and deepen understanding.
